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my wife and I have 6 kids between us. The two youngest ones we have together are nine and 11 years. My wife works all the time and has no time for the children, herself or me. She has left the care of the two young children solely to me because she is tired all the time.

I get them ready for school before leaving for my own job. When I leave work I have to rush to do homework even though she is home from the first job. Her complaint is always the same about being tired. With all the money she makes, I still take care of all the bills. Recently, I forced her to pay the $40 electric bill and she allowed it to lapse and for two nights we did not have electricity in the home. All the food got bad and the kids had nightmares. I still ended up paying before the electric company could restore the power.
I do not have a life at all. I babysit, do laundry, cook, take care of kids and still hold down a job. The worst is that I do not even have sex because, you guessed it: she is tired.
I have had enough and want to move out but I am scared about what will happen to my kids. Naijapals, what should I do? Please help me.

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~ 6 years ago donslmnstvn said:
I really know how u feel my brother.
Have u had a heart a heart conversation with your wife ? She can' t claim to be tired all the time thereby neglecting d home front. Politely communication what u just wrote down here or ur worries to ur wife and here what she is going to say. If it is about hiring a house help dat will take care of ur children plz both of u should do so. She should also be willing to help financially as well no matter how little it is since she is working afterall what is she using her money to do if not to contribute to d well being of the family. What was the circumstances behind getting married to this lady & has she always been like dis from the onset ? Something is wrong somewhere, so politely discuss with her & if she is not changing then it means u both need to consult a marriage counsellor to help you out .
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~ 6 years ago quest3 said:
@ confee
How many jobs is she keeping? She works so hard and yet could not spare 40 box to pay for electric bills. You cook, babysit and all that. She is not telling you what the problem is. Get to her to talk with you and possibly get someone she respects other than you to speak with her. And you both should agree if you need a house help. Stop letting her treat you like some shit.. I just dey look you first...
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~ 6 years ago gogoman said:
hey
for you to even have 6 kids! you must look after your kids that is the fact, or do you want to abandon your family? and for your wife claiming to be tired or whatever, i guess she has been sleeping someone younger than you
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~ 6 years ago apprehended said:
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Ain' t even gonna add more insults to ur balentral nonsense.. ur already got 6 kids btw u and tht slut, fool think, think or get a life. U saw pepper soup u jumped on it, dude get with tha heffin program ok. U married her.. now here goes lamentation, ... ur already sound lik a heffin looser, be human.. do ur diligence, and do it right.. or else u already lost and ur life is over. I leave u with des few words, they are sluts and u can never treat them right all the time, simple! Thank me later.
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