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I've been single since January, I came out of a serious relationship due to some family issues and since then relationship hasn't been in my favour.. There's this particular guy have known for years (over 5years) he has been on my issue,I pended his request because he's this kind of on and off guy so I never saw him as someone that truly love me but we are friends.... Fast forward to July.. He came up with it again and claiming to be single so I said yes but communication has been so poor.. Poor like we can go one week without communicating, i always break the silence,he chats once in a while... I talked to him about it but he claims he loves me that loves comes from the heart and not by how many times you communicate..he has been like this that's y I peended his request since.. He's always claiming busy,though he can travel to 5diff states in 5days and ended up travelling out of the country for weeks due to his job anyways.. He's always claiming he loves me because I've known him when he had nothing but he refuse to put it in action.. I'm this kind of lady that doesn't like forcing things, I so believe in the adage that says what would be would be... I give up on anything that obstruct my happiness so easily, he follows this platform but I'm not sure if he's going to read this due to his busy schedule as claimed.. We've not had sex we've slept together once.. The problem now is that he's planning on how we going to see,obviously we might have sex this time around but I'm confused if things won't go wrong more than this because someone that hasn't seen my pant and he doesn't see communication as a barrier.. Is it advisable for me to go see him? Yes,I love him so much even more than I'm showing him.. Pls advise a sister

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~ 5 years ago apprehended said:
Girl
No disrespect o but ur case pass my reasoning.. brb
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~ 5 years ago apprehended said:
Girl
Ur issue na ur issue o, use ur judgment inside dis matter sharp sharp. U say u luv am but wait o guy fit be orangutan, na ur headache sha. Ok go ahead visit d useless guy but no xes. @MOnkey, thunda destroy ur testicles there hahaha
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~ 5 years ago do4sure said:
AFRAID OF SEX
You earlier had an issued relationship and now you trying to create another issued relationship you need counseling not advice. Not bad if you book a date with a pastor, Alfa or possibly an IFA priest.
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~ 5 years ago do4sure said:
GBAGAM GBAGAM GBAGAM
Creating issues where there is none. Are you afraid to sleep naked with whom you loved? Action speaks louder than words, see him to confirm.
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~ 5 years ago weichengding said:
Who can help recharge, I give him money
Who can help recharge, I give him money NAIJAPALS/ Add my Facebook account Xiaoxiao Chen
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~ 5 years ago Ufuoma_ said:
Don't fall for his tactics
Judging by what you wrote up there, I don' t see any prospect with this guy. He is just using you to ease his sexual urge. The moment the tension is satisfied, he will disappear without a trace. Use your your common sense.
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~ 5 years ago trulyval said:
SORRY SIS.
Really can' t know for sure, but from the signs whether he loves u or not dz relationship doesn' t seem to bother well for you. Communication & time among other factors we mk it a big ish & possibly lead to it' s end. Consider this.
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~ 5 years ago flashy222 said:
your happiness is important
yes he might be very busy as he clams, but if truly he loves you as he claims, i don' t think it is wise i stays for about a week without keeping in touch. i thin you guys should meet and sought out this issue. communication is very important in any relationship.
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~ 5 years ago keepingcool said:
hie pretty
no love der. if a guy love u, he will surely reach on u, u are to ignore so long n hoping for noting which is not good. May God provide n give u a guy dat will love n appreciate u. money or money, is not n issue. just ask God for d best in life. leave him n move with the will of God to ur promise land. some one is also der hoping u will give him ur loving heart
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