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What would you do?
You meet a gurl through a friend, made an appointment and y'all chilled out for like 2 hours gisting and getting to know each other... It was full of laughs and all.
All of a sudden she starts acting weirder everyday. You call she doesn't pick and when she picks she talks as if she's dreaming, she talks to you anyhow, she shouts at everything, hiss at everything. She refused to see you again. Tried all you can but, she tries her possible best to cripple every effort you make to even talk with her again.
What's up with that?
Is it worth calling again? (despite it's gonna be another week of constant calling before she finally picks just to shout and cut the call several times with the excuse that the network was bad)
What do y'all think?
Thanks
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I have a boyfriend who doesn’t seem to know what he wants. We have been dating for one year and he comes up with weird excuses why we can’t go to the next level. He will fix a date with me and not show up and then two days later he will call as if nothing happened.

I have already discounted him as a boyfriend. Just the other day we were texting each other and he told me he loved me. I made a funny face and told him that he had no clue about dating. He replied and said: “I really love you and you are mine until death do us part.” That was a little freaky and I immediately replied and said: “I am sorry but you are not the one for me. I am sorry it has not worked out, have a nice life.”

He shot back: “You cannot get away from me, and you are mine.”
Okay, I feel like moving and changing my phone number. This guy is so weird. In one year, we have actually slept together just twice and been on a date times and so many canceled dates and he claims that I am his? Till death do us part? Is he for real? Please help. He is freaking me out.
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I’m married with three children and another one on the way, but I can’t stop thinking about my husband’s brother who is an ex from long ago.

One night, a few years back, he came around, while my husband was out. We got talking and he admitted that he still had feelings for me. We ended up in bed.
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I am the first son of my father who is now late.

When my father died some 11 years ago, I relocated to Lagos to finish my schooling. I lived with my aunt then but I had to leave their home because I was being abused. Upon leaving my aunt’s house, things became so difficult for me but I persevered with my education till I finished my bachelors.

During my lean years, I fell out with most of my family members. My mom refused to speak to me for three years, I was essentially the outcast of the family. During this period, my mom and some elders in our family gave out my sisters hand in marriage.

The couple had a trad/white wedding. Bride price was paid, all the customs of our people were followed save for one: the consent or knowledge of the first son. I wouldn’t get to hear about this marriage until six months later. That night, I cried because their action proved that I was nobody, a nothing to my mom and siblings.

Anyways, I kept on working hard and soon became comfortable. I mended fences with everyone in my family, but even at that, no one offered an explanation why things unfolded the way it did or an apology. I didn’t make any noise, I just picked up myself and moved on after committing the lessons learned to mind.

Six years and two children later, my sisters marriage has hit the rocks. Now they’re asking me as the first born to mediate and talk to the man.

I REFUSED.

The man (sister’s husband) won’t speak to my mom or the other elders he had been dealing with regarding a possible reconciliation. My family know me to be a good mediator and peace maker and they are not wrong.

I refused because there is no point mediating in a marriage that was done over my head.

As it stands now, I have no interest in playing head of house or anything of such nature. I send money, I help make connections, I foot bills for everyone in the family but I leave their decision making to them since they discounted me right from the very beginning. I have no interest whatsoever in becoming a leader in that family.

What would you do if you were in my shoes?
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The girl I love most in the world has just broken my heart not by being unfaithful, but because I have just discovered she is a thief. We have been together for 18 months.

The last time I was in her room, I curiously looked through some of her drawers because I’d been baffled by series of missing items in my place. I was really sad when I found a gold chain my mother gave me, a gold ring I bought the last time I travelled and a couple of expensive cuff-links in her drawers.
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