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Hello Guys,

How u na dey my people? Just seeking for your advice.

My husband for 5 years with 2 children (a girl and a boy), is now cheating on me with another woman out there. I did not know he will turn out to be this way as he wasn't like this during our courtship period for 2 good years before I now decided to marry him. Now, he is always with this strange woman, goes out with her, stays late outside before coming back home, do all sort of things with her, even sleeping with her. I have confronted him about this several times, he will turn it to fight me. I have all the proofs with me to have concluded this way.

My People, what should I do in this case. I'm in school, I'm also working, then taking care of his 2 children dat I have for him. Should I ignore everything he is doing as its hurting me or leave the marriage? Thank you.

Comments:

~ 5 years ago vivianknowsbest said:
Woman
You got everything going good for you I mean your two kids, you getting education, plus you have a job. So why are you aggravating yourself for a husband who doesn' t appreciate your hard work?. Do you think is every married women that can handle being a mother, schooling, and working at the same time? Please my advice to you is that, instead of thinking and getting emotional, suggest you re-direct your focus on finishing your studies, take good care of your kids and stay happy. Your husband will learn his lessons sooner or later. Pls done go develop hypertension for a cheating husband because your kids need you
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~ 5 years ago saintony said:
exactly the point
women calling men all sort of names when they can' t even watch out for each other. it' s one thing for a married to come wanting affairs with you and it' s another honorable thing for you to turn him down just for the sake of not hurting fellow woman and her children . My advice madam ... pray .
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~ 5 years ago Thomax said:
Keep doing the best you can for him
If u still love him & wants ur marriage to work, stop snooping around him or monitoring him. keep giving him all ur best even whn u feel like he didnt deserve it. At a point in his life, he will change back to the loving husband he once was. Every man gets bored in a marriage or relationship. Its ur duty to find that thing he loves & wants. Keep dressing nice for him & looking sexy (start exercising to trim ur tummy & shape ur body). In fact maybe u shud change the way u dress by upgrading ur wardrobes (night gowns & sexy undies) and try learn more ways to make sex exciting even if it means giving him heads. Your goal here is to win ur man back. I can assure u, after a while, he will realize his mistakes and come crawling back to u. Never pay evil back with evil unless u' v made up ur mind abt ur marriage before coming here seeking advice. Appreciate what u have cox thousands of lonely women are ready to fill ur shoes & good men are hard to find.
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~ 5 years ago CHRISETTE said:
Too bad
It hurt me to see people telling her to stay now because he is a man,if is the other way round now they will say leave madam if you know you can keep up with his bullshit leave before it get worst.
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~ 5 years ago Balogunvictor1 said:
Just forget it
Forget and focus on your life
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