Login With Facebook Or Please Join Naijapals! or Login << Back to confessions Confession My fiance makes $70k a year, while I make $115k. I'm completely 0K with the difference in salaries. However, I just learned that he has been supporting his mom and dad financially for years since he graduated from college. I overheard him tell his mom that they can start looking for a new house and he will help them purchase it after we get married since we will have more money with my income. When I questioned him about it, he said that it was the least he could do for his parents sacrificing to put him through college. He said that when we get married, my money is his money, and there shouldn't be an issue with where he'd like for our money to go, especially when it is for his parents. I love this man, but I am seriously thinking about calling off the wedding. I would love to get your followers thoughts on this. Comments:~ 5 years ago
saintony said: imagine!!! you love your money more than him , a man who is in love will practically do anything for you girls but when reverse is the case you all will suddenly get sense. go ahead and call off the wedding you think it' s easy to get a reasonable man talk less of keeping him. 5 likes ~ 5 years ago
fart4mee said: YOU LOVE HIM BUT HE DOESNT LOVE YOU FOR REAL tye fact that he is hiding an attempt to help his parent proves two things he doesnt trust you and he actually getting married to you because of the kind of money you are making.. if you dont belive pretend you lost your wonderfully paying job for sometime and watch how he will quickly change towards you.. he probably has another person he love and want to use you to acquire enough property before he ends up with that lady.. what is the proof that the house he was planning to buy is actually for his parent.. investigate properly -1 likes ~ 5 years ago
Famousaudu12 said: Think twice You can' t call of the wedding just because of that, After all, his parents are also your parents, so there' s nothing wrong in renting a house for them. If its yours won' t you do the same for your parents. Pls think twice. 1 likes ~ 5 years ago
Beautyqueenlois said: MY DEAR money or no money marriage is instituted by God there should' nt be any argument b/w they two of u because both of u have equal right to d finance. I think all u both need is just an agreement on how to use the money that' s all. no likes ~ 5 years ago
flashy222 said: ha madam you wanna call off your weeding all because your man is planning to buy a house for his parent with your money and his money ? girl you just proved that if he becomes broke tomorrow you will dump his ass. don' t be selfish they are his parents and your parents after the weeding. no likes ~ 5 years ago
ojblaze74 said: Be Wise You should be happy he is not spending it on another girl, it shows he is a responsible man, if there is an issue with your own parents, he will gladly assist too, dont be selfish and self centered, how are you sure of seeing another man that will love you? young woman, be wise no likes Add CommentPlease Login To Add Comment<< Back to confessions Write a confession |
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