![]() Login With Facebook Or Please Join Naijapals! or Login running - ended - open << Back to Fights - Add comment Oyinminijoor(0) VS ajepakoromance(1) Death and Divorce. Which is Worse?? I say DIVORCE!!! It's parental divorce not death that huts your child most. One of the reasons parents say that kids are better off is because they are given only two options. "Do you want mommy and daddy to live together and fight, or would you rather want us to live apart and not fight?? The child may say" I want you to live together and not fight" It's at this time, the child is much wiser than the parents. lol Comments:~ 10 years ago
Oyinminijoor said: To me, Abuse is an exception To all these rules. If there is abuse, you have to get out, no questions asked. Just leave. keep you and your kid/kids safe. ~ 10 years ago
ajepakoromance said: Its hybrid world (aka white man) not that of our ancestors.. Hmmmm!!!, today most men want an intelligent girl or wife.. What happen to love, isnt women nature supposed to be nurturing and caring?, isnt love tender, nurturing and caring?.. Why is it that most men of today dont seach for a nurturing, caring, loyal and trust worthy girl again?. Instead they want a girl that is intelligent, strong, and beautiful.. What is their meaning of strong, intelligent and beautiful?. big booty, tits, educated as in career girl, very religious and very masculine.. The real truth is that most men today are like children and act like women, as a result of media, education and hollywood............ ..................... ..................... ........... Death is supposed to be accepted as part of life, why are people scared to die?, A.K.A RELIGION............. LOVE=POWER........ The oposite of LOVE IS HATE and POWER IS FEAR.. When women are afraid to love bcus all men want intelligent woman, what we then have is women who hate love,.. When men are afraid to die, they lost the POWER to RULE.. Coward men and masculine women equal homosexuality, divorce, violence and eath. so i disagreed with you, death and divorce are bad and worst.... ~ 10 years ago
ajepakoromance said: Oyinmi The true God head is MAMA + PAPA + CHILD = LIFE... Anything ouside the God head is CHAOS.. So i agreed with you that a divorcee single parental home is destructive to the mental, psyche and emotional development of children....... Nevertheless i think Death is stil worst... Imagine growing up never to know one of you parent or both bcus death took them when you are very young or at birth, i think the effect of this on the child is more damaging than both parent divorced... What do you say to that?. ~ 10 years ago
democrazy said: certainly I agree with Pako Honeymi......how body? you dey make sense I tell you!! My bro.....atona_d_wise_ 1 Men....did I always have you in my mind!!! For sure! Know say you' ve been good. And as we be so called Africans or Nigerians, then we dey suffer panparapa!! My sis, Oyin......Yes I agree, a kid should never be put in such situation. I remember myself as a kid. My worst nightmare is Dad or Mum leaving or dying. @Pako has said it all. I' ll love to deliberate on how sad and hurtful divorce is, but I will only be indulging in symptoms of what @Pako said regarding our new way of life. Maybe if we practice responsible sex and marriages we can start to reduce these illnesses in our society. Its the sex that creates the children and bonds the couple. The current solutions to the Europeanised created problems i.e. Marriage, birth control, pregnancy prevention, and child support have if anything worsened things. ~ 10 years ago
Oyinminijoor said: Relax guys What are u guys saying?? do u know d joy a child enjoy when d parents are together?? of course it's better for a child not to know d parent at all than to have a taste of either one and all of a sudden they got separated. such child will not perform well at school around his/her peers gonna b tough. when u have lively two parents at home it's transparent d joy will b shown all over now imagine them to now separate? what will become of d child?? hmmm! sickness everyday I guess. D child will b cursed! claiming "how I wish" neverdless, Violence at home?? Nah! not support ~ 10 years ago
Oyinminijoor said: hey hey excuse me! What's d cause of this divorce?? Violence? isn't majority 88.9 of it its caused by our honorable " Men"? by their "3rd" leg?? when a man is not faithful (smh) of course gonna be violence When d man complains his John Thomas is not as tight in that honey pot as those he fuck outside isn't that hell in d cage?? and as a literate woman lols she is d one who knows her right to d left lols what do u expected from her?? divorce?? after all d complains, mountain of fire for change of life and d husband still keep keeping on messing around?? Oh No! ~ 10 years ago
ajepakoromance said: Oyinmi Divorce is not an option but a most in a world of fantasy and lie.. Today majority of them ladies live in lies.. Ask a lady what type of man they like, answer ' ' A God Fearing Man, strong and intelligent' ' .. God fearing man as in very religious, strong as in mascurlaly build up. Intelligent as in having a good degree, career or rich.. What happen to a very humble culture man, no he is illiterate and weak.. This same culture man believe in nautre and have respect for humanity, own his own farm land, house and business ,a good father and leader, yet bcus of his believes he his consider to worth nothing by today soceity.... What of polygame, that in itself is a SIN.. What does our today lady want, Lies.. They are living a life of social engineering given to them by Hollywood and church.. What about the popular slogan ' ' CHEATING' ' .. The most common excuse for divorce is ' ' my man is cheating on me' ' . What do they expect from a God FEARING man, Ladies please hear yourself, ' ' God FEARING MAN' ' FEAR MEANS LACK OF POWER. A man with no power, will always flaunt himself to trick others.. I think Divorce is our own self made problem, so therefore i believed to lost ones parent at an early age is far worst than divorce, bcus divorced is self inflicted... ~ 10 years ago
Oyinminijoor said: So ladies should change their request to........ Satan Fearing??? damn that bro! ~ 10 years ago
ajepakoromance said: Oyinmi Satan fearing?, why Fear, to fear is to be powerless... The opposite of power is fear. Thus to live in fear is to need a protector, as british royal family put it, commonwealth.. Commonwealth is to have a treaty with a supper power nation for protection.... Automatically the fear of Devil subconsciously means you are powerless and need something to protect you.. Imagine how this sound in reality when women are looking for a God fearing man?, it says that, they are irresponsible and children... Look at the behavior and tell me if am lieing.. Only an irresponsible powerless man will allow is entire Household to slave for another man in the name of job or career and Jesus said, ' ' YE ARE GOD' ' .. Add CommentPlease Login To Add Comment<< Back to Fights - Add comment Start a Fight |
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