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So basically, I have been talking to a guy I met on Instagram since June of this year. I live in Milan, and he was supposed to come see me in August but due to his busy schedule with work, he couldn’t make it. So since I’m coming to Nigeria for Christmas, we decided to meet up in Nigeria. I’m not coming for him, i had already planned on coming for my friends wedding. So anyways, this guy seems to really like me. He’s 42 while I just turned 23. I kind of feel weird because of the age difference, I’ve never been with anyone that much older than me. He seems to want marriage and stuff which I’m not ready for. He’s a divorcee and has a child. He’s never given me money before nor have I ever asked him for money. I genuinely like him but my problem now is that, I have a boyfriend who stays in Abuja, we’ve been together for two years but we recently took a break because he’s been cheating on me nonstop. He’s 27. But recently, we started talking again and he wants us to get back together and I feel bad now because I’m getting to know the 42 years old man and we’re planning on spending time together. I feel bad because I don’t want it to look like I’m double dating. I obviously love my boyfriend but he’s cheated on me several times so I don’t know if I should just do the same thing back to him and get to know this guy, it’s not like I’m trying to marry him. But I also don’t want to get to know this new guy and mess things up with my boyfriend. I know it’s very confusing, please help.

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~ 5 years ago omotola20 said:
MY SINCERE ADVICE TO U.
MY DEAR, my advice to you is dat, u should no wat u want in life and u should be very determine and focus. you are very young and still have a lot ahead of you. you should seek God intervention on both ur boyfriend (who u claimed cheats on you) and the 42 years old man (who is older dan u with 19yrs if am not mistaken). Pray to God Almighty to direct ur path in life on how to decide about the two men u claimed u love. God is in best position to direct u well. if u dont no how to go about it, maybe u should see ur pastor to help u. Moreover, u need to check on ur capabilities of both men with u (I mean spiritually and with horoscope signs), which are very important things to know and not forgetting the genotype of both of them with urs. And dont ever think of cheating on ur boyfriend bcos he cheats on u severally, doing dat as a means of revenge on him will not help u in anyway my dear but it might have some kind of effect on u later in future. u need to be very careful and mindful. if u make any mistake now and need to marriage without doing the proper thing, u may have urself to blame later dear. so think about my advice and act on it wisely. u can message me if u want to ask me more questions or need my advice.
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~ 5 years ago apprehended said:
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~ 5 years ago SisterSister9750 said:
It's a Trick
It seems confusing, true but it is a trick. Please, you are still very young...be very good to yourself now to have a better future and married life. The ex who cheated on you many times is not serious about your or his life; physically or spiritually. He may be a narcissist or not; but I warn all single people...BEWARE OF NARCISSISTS! My advice, the place where your ex is now...leave him there; walk away and do not get involved with him again. The 42 yr old, sadly to say may have a hidden. There are people where age does not matter. Are you and the older guy fit in this category, only God knows. So I pray you ask God his advice and that He shows/exposes everything you should know now now. Take care
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