Login With Facebook Or Please Join Naijapals! or Login I dated my wife officially for 3 years before marriage even as I have known her for nine years or so. We met during my service In Kaduna in 2012. Earlier this year we got married, around June, we moved back to Lagos to start our life as a young couple. Now the issue is that before we got married,her uncle secure a job for her at Airforce base as civilian staff with 40k salary in kaduna as she live and grow up there in KD. I seriously kicked against this job because I stay in Lagos. Now as soon as we move to Lagos after marriage in June ,she reported to work in kaduna the following month hoping to get transfer to Lagos base.The transfer didnt come to success, less she stay put in Kd in her friends house. I am staying alone all through this period. Mind you I also work with Gokada with 90k salary per month. My wife have left me in disarray. I notice they have less activity going in their school because she stay indoor all through yet she won't listen to my plea to return to Lagos. I notice her sister is supporting her. I think its because I am not financially buoyant enough reason for all this mess in my life. I was promised by her family that after marriage she would be transfer yet nothing happen til now. I am in lag, my wife is in kaduna. Unbearable, at this point I am going places I should not be going. My pals any word of advice on what to do? My heart Is heavy now View comments (8) | Add comment Having asking this girl out for a while now, she has visited twice, no sex though. I asked her to tell me where I stand but she will just be silent or return the question to me & say "to you, what are we?". I do send her money & she doesn't complain but refused to say yes I'm dating you or no, I'm not. Please, what advice do you guys have for me? View comments (2) | Add comment Will Coronavirus end before the world or will the world end before coronavirus? View comments (2) | Add comment After breaking up with my partner, I find it difficult to find a lady that is genuinely ready to settle down. Most ladies I come across say they are ready to settle down but their actions don't seem so. All they are after is material gains. I am not a stingy guy but when i notice that a lady is materialistic it wards me off in that relationship. I wouldn't mind a caring, bible believing christian who is ready to settle down soonest. Marriage is no tea party and I dont want to have children that are from a broken home. I am patiently waiting for the right one. View comments (1) | Add comment I'm a 29 years old guy and there are somethings that are troubling me now and I urgently need advice on that. Few years ago, I was doing perfectly okay with my business, living my life to the fullest, doing and eating whatever I want. I didn't have any girl friend either. Finally I met these girl, she was having all the qualities I ever wanted from a woman, respect, hardworking, though she wasn't that beautiful. Few months later after we started dating, she got pregnant. When she told about it, I became worried because, I wasn't ready to become a father yet, but to my surprise, she was very excited about the whole thing. That made me to dislike her a bit because, it became obvious to me that, it's exactly what she wanted. The very day her mom discovered about the pregnancy is the day she sent her to my house. Few months later she gave birth to a boy. But the issue now is that, not only that my business has collapsed but, we hardly eat nowadays. Though before she gave birth, I went to a man of God and told him about everything but, he told me that she is not my woman. Within me I doubted him because I was thinking he is take due to the way he asked me. He said "is like you have a woman in your life" I said yes and he then said, I have to be careful because, it's seems I haven't seen my woman yet. I reasoned it and said within my self, how could he not see that I have a woman by saying, it's like? And he should know it's would abnormal for me to be single. To cut the story short, i now feel that she is a total bad luck to me. We dated for about two years before she got pregnant and since the time she became pregnant till today, I have never experienced success like before. I'm beginning to believe that all the misfortune is because we are together but, don't just know what to do about it. Please, what do you think i should do about it. View comments (1) | Add comment Write a confession |
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