Login With Facebook Or Please Join Naijapals! or Login After breaking up with my partner, I find it difficult to find a lady that is genuinely ready to settle down. Most ladies I come across say they are ready to settle down but their actions don't seem so. All they are after is material gains. I am not a stingy guy but when i notice that a lady is materialistic it wards me off in that relationship. I wouldn't mind a caring, bible believing christian who is ready to settle down soonest. Marriage is no tea party and I dont want to have children that are from a broken home. I am patiently waiting for the right one. View comments (277) | Add comment My husband does not open car door for me .. I miss your platform and I hope you post this , I love growth and very proud to be a member . I want advice please I beg you post for me . Since I was born no man has ever opened car door for me in my life, I see it in movies but not experienced it before. I have dated o we 7 guys and finally am married and my husband will never open car door for me . Even if I ask he will say don’t I have hands, I feel so bad. I want to be loved and the only thing I ask is to open a car door and make me feel special . The car is my car but we drive it together and I even pay most of our bills yet he won’t pamper me like a woman . The painful part was when he opened the door for my friend when we went to pick her to church and when I asked him he said she was on high heels and carrying a Bible and bag . I want it so bad , I want him to just open the car door for me and make me feel special. It’s not too much to ask how do I make him do it . View comments (9) | Add comment I dated my wife officially for 3 years before marriage even as I have known her for nine years or so. We met during my service In Kaduna in 2012. Earlier this year we got married, around June, we moved back to Lagos to start our life as a young couple. Now the issue is that before we got married,her uncle secure a job for her at Airforce base as civilian staff with 40k salary in kaduna as she live and grow up there in KD. I seriously kicked against this job because I stay in Lagos. Now as soon as we move to Lagos after marriage in June ,she reported to work in kaduna the following month hoping to get transfer to Lagos base.The transfer didnt come to success, less she stay put in Kd in her friends house. I am staying alone all through this period. Mind you I also work with Gokada with 90k salary per month. My wife have left me in disarray. I notice they have less activity going in their school because she stay indoor all through yet she won't listen to my plea to return to Lagos. I notice her sister is supporting her. I think its because I am not financially buoyant enough reason for all this mess in my life. I was promised by her family that after marriage she would be transfer yet nothing happen til now. I am in lag, my wife is in kaduna. Unbearable, at this point I am going places I should not be going. My pals any word of advice on what to do? My heart Is heavy now View comments (8) | Add comment I am a lady in my mid thirty. I trust men with all of my Heart but it seems I am making a big mistake. I have been dealt with by men and it hurts me so much. I decided that i won't trust any man again in my life. I want a genuine advice on how to love a man without hurting myself because I have a tender heart. View comments (7) | Add comment My boyfriend said I need to chose between him and my best friend of over 5 years, what can I do? Should I let him go? View comments (7) | Add comment Write a confession |
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