Login With Facebook Or Please Join Naijapals! or Login My girlfriend is very very silly, I rented that apartment for her before I lost my job, I bought everything in that house, I was leaving in my company apartment so when I was sacked they took everything including my car cause I had no personal car of my own then I had to put up with my girlfriend for the time and her attitude has been so shitty, can you believe this girl asked me to wash plate and clean the house when she is off to work ,and if I don’t she will nag and give me the insults of my life , I will just ignore . Sometimes I have to go put up with my friends or pay for a cheap hotel just to have my peace and I don’t my friends to know my predicament until I sort myself out. So yesterday she was on one long call and as soon as she was done she just entered the kitchen and came out asking me to go wash the plate, I ignored her and she repeated it, I ignored her and the next thing was that she went into the kitchen and got one of the plate with water and there it at me , I went mad and beat her almost to death , ended up rushing her to the hospital and she is still here now . Naijapals I have paid her hospital bills but I am planing on kicking her out of this house since I paid the rent and the landlord knows me well, I paid in her name tho but they take instructions from me, even the gate man knows I am her man and I charge . I am done with the relationship now I know she was in it just for the benefit, it not even up to 6 months I lost my job and she is acting stupid . What do u all suggest ? I know o will be fine . View comments (11) | Add comment My wife and my neighbor had a heated argument that led to a very big fight this early morning, when I saw the fight coming, I asked my wife to go inside and she refused, the next was a slap from my neighbor and her daughter, I tried to separate but they beat my wife silly and I could not do anything because I am sleeping with my neighbor daughter and I was handicapped. Naijapals I felt so bad, I could not touch her Mum or her to avoid drama I just watched them beat up my wife until I was able to take her out before they kill her . It was so bad I rushed her to the hospital, my wife is insisting we go to the police and report so that they don’t come back again , I refused and she insisted and called me a weak man, she called me Diffetent names but non I know if I go to the police station with her, I will just cast and this girl I am sleeping with is just 16 years but 16 years wey tear eyes o, because she was the one who came at me so don’t even accuse me of rape or anything. Please how do I handle this without getting trapped . I love my wife and I am a disgrace to this that she is pregnant. But she is just 4weeks gone and the doc said the baby is safe . NP how do I fight for my wife . View comments (10) | Add comment I just have a few questions that are bothering me. I met this guy through his mother. Actually the mom is my mom's friend. She collected my number from me and gave to her son. We have been communicating for going to two years now. He wants to marry me. He will be 31 yr old and I will be 21 this year . He is nice matured and very comfortable and he really pets me. I have been avoiding him since we started communication, not wanting to meet him, because I told him am not ready to marry cos am young and still in school and my course (law) is very hectic for marraige and motherhood. He told me I wouldn't have to worry that he will make me comfortable anywhere and in any situation. He has been very persistent. Never shown his anger when I don't respond or disappoint our appointment. I finally met him this Christmas and I like him very much, because of the way we have known since. He is proud to show me to all his family and big bosses and rich friends too. They all are even looking forward to the meet me. My mum likes him too. But he stopped at sec school then entered business before he made it. Though he said he is still going to go to uni. My worry is am I too young to marry?..is he too old for me? And not going to the University is it a problem? I don't want to make a mistake because am too young and it would pain me cos I was young but I don't also want to loose a good man because I think am too young..(.i don't know if anyone can relate to this feeling ). Please I need advice especially from married people immediately because I think he wants to propose to me. View comments (7) | Add comment I didn't ask to be created, and I think it's quite unfair to bring people into the world without their consent. I have no desire to continue living. Nothing interests me... This world is shit! View comments (7) | Add comment Why do most men take good, hardworking ladies for granted? ...Here’s my story, I’d be 26 in a few days. there’s this guy I’ve been seeing for a while, he’s in the states and I’m back here in Nig, we have been together before he traveled, we’ve always been on and off, he’d just disappear and reappear anytime he see me doing pretty well for myself. I run an online store, I’m more introverted and I have just few friends. So recently things weren’t going quite well and my phone crashed, I had to use money from my business to get a new one and it really affected it My BF on the other hand sometimes ask me about it but he’s not willing to help in anyway .. he has a good job, he has the money because he tells me about most of his transactions. My sis once had accommodation ish in school and I needed just 20k to balance up, I told him about it he said he didn’t have and the following day transferred 100k plus to his mom for shopping ...I am not a liability, I’m not demanding and I’m even willing to do something for myself, all I want is just a little support. I come from a struggling family.. back to now I told him about my birthday, told him I needed to get a few stuff, I actually had it in mind to add it to the money for my business ..oga told me he had just 3500 to spare lmao like wth!! And since then he’s not really been talking to me and he’s recently talking to me about marriage, I’m pretty sure if I’m able to struggle my way through and try to put the pieces together which is usually difficult Because no one is willing to help now he’d come back again and start preaching about how he sees his future with me .. I’m someone who don’t believe in someone changing a particular thing about them after marriage ..but can I really settle with someone like this if he’s indeed serious about Marriage? View comments (7) | Add comment Write a confession |
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