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.I love my wife so much she been with me through thick and thin,I listen to her a lot.we had a very heated argument on Friday night cause I was out late just with a guy friend she knows about and I haven’t done that in a very long while,I got home and we entered into a very serious argument. i tried walking away more than twice but she kept dragging me to the floor,I couldn’t hold back the third time and I stood up I was frustrated so I hit her back I need to know if I have done something wrong and if I need to say sorry to her or call a family meeting we been together for 8years.i can’t even concentrate cos I laid my hands on her and I have promised myself never to lay hands in my woman.please I need to know if I’m wrong By hitting her back cause she did it first more than once.This is the first time such thing is happening she even left me bruises on my face before I hit her back I have evidence.Please post this and keep me anonymous I need to read comments..We have two kids already.im really pained and devastated for hitting her I’m I wrong or I need to apologize I haven’t been with any other woman since 7years.she’s all i have.
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My wife and my neighbor had a heated argument that led to a very big fight this early morning, when I saw the fight coming, I asked my wife to go inside and she refused, the next was a slap from my neighbor and her daughter, I tried to separate but they beat my wife silly and I could not do anything because I am sleeping with my neighbor daughter and I was handicapped.

Naijapals I felt so bad, I could not touch her Mum or her to avoid drama I just watched them beat up my wife until I was able to take her out before they kill her . It was so bad I rushed her to the hospital, my wife is insisting we go to the police and report so that they don’t come back again , I refused and she insisted and called me a weak man, she called me Diffetent names but non I know if I go to the police station with her, I will just cast and this girl I am sleeping with is just 16 years but 16 years wey tear eyes o, because she was the one who came at me so don’t even accuse me of rape or anything. Please how do I handle this without getting trapped . I love my wife and I am a disgrace to this that she is pregnant. But she is just 4weeks gone and the doc said the baby is safe . NP how do I fight for my wife .
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For my discovered, best gift to earn me money, my wife must agree with the job. But my wife has a job which is at Cross purposes with my job. I'm the biggest asset she needs for her business to flourish, and she is the only person that must agree to work with me in my line of interest. That means if I lend my expertise for her business, she will still be seen as the owner. If she agrees to be with me in my field, her business will go down.

After back and forth arguments, I have realized that heaven will rather fall, wife won't support my business to leave hers behind. If she doesn't support mine, I won't go far in the business; if I fully support hers, she will own the business.

We will need many years to build her business before it can support a family. My own is currently supporting the family. Does that mean I married a wrong person?

What seems like a solution is if I can find another job that won't affect her business. But the only thing I like most is what I'm doing currently.
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Good morning my brothers & sisters,

Please I know my write up is very lengthy, please help me to take your time to go thru it as I am depressed. God bless u.

I & my husband has been traditionally & legally married for 3 years now, and we have been hoping on God for the fruit of the womb.

However, my issue goes like this. My hubby has been out of job for the past two years and few months, doing this period, I have been the one managing the affair of the house irrespective of my family that also depend on me.

During this period, we quarrel a lot because whenever I give him ideas on what I think can fetch him money, he will feel relax and ignore my ideas to the extent that oneday I have to voice out my mind to him rudely, which I still went back to kneel down beg to him. I beg him severally because I am a free minded person.

There was a day my pastor told him to send his CV, my hubby refused to send it. I have to plead with my hubby to send the CV which he eventually said I should send it myself and he still didn’t follow up the CV sent.

I also advise him to further his education, because he is not a graduate (but he is very sound), he pick up a quarrel with me regarding that.

I ensure there is food at home and sometimes when I have enough fund, I do send money to his account so that he can get something for himself, many things I can’t recur.

1st week of December 2018, I took him to a prayer house, they saw vision that my hubby is a great person and that someone is blocking him. The pastor anoint & pray for him.

4th week of December 2018, my hubby got a call for a construction job in Ogun state which he traveled on the 28th Dec. 2018 and uptill now my hubby is not back home.

He picks my calls whenever he feels like, he read my chart sometimes without response. I can barely say since he travelled, we haven’t spoken for like 3 to 4 times.

I keep asking him in what way have I wronged him and even apologies for what I know nothing about. He keeps sending chart to me that is my attitude. I responded to him that for the past 2 years and few months u have been out of job and is not that he has gotten a job that my attitude has suddenly changed.


I have been begging him and even asked him severally if I should visit where he is, he refused.

My family are aware of what is happening and I have communicated with his family too about this, it seems they are not taking it serious.

Kindly advise me on steps I need to take, I am getting tried. I will be 30years in May 2019.

Please don’t mind my grammar above, I am in pains.









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I'm 28 yrs old, my parents died when I was 14yrs old. I dropped out of school because no one could afford to pay my fees.
I met a guy when I was 17yrs old and he sent me back to school. He sold fruits on the streets so that he could pay my school fees.
He later got a job as a truck driver and sent me to university.
I'm now working as a lawyer. My problem is that I feel I can't continue with this relationship because this guy is not the type of man I would like to marry! !!!! How best can I tell him that he is not my type without hurting his feelings?
I'm grateful he sent me to school but I can't be in a relationship with him anymore! I want somebody in my own class, not a truck driver! !! I am Stressed and need your advise
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