Login With Facebook Or Please Join Naijapals! or Login << Back to confessions Confession Am a dude who's an introvert, one who's so scared to ask a lady out. It really bothers me because presently, I've got plans of settling down soon and am scared of ending up with someone who's isn't really what I wanted. I have a clear view of the kind of class of lady I really do want but whenever I see anyone that's in that category i get frozen up until am gone past the moment. My confidence is really low. I sometimes do get the green light from these ladies especially those around my neighborhood but how do I even begin? This really bothers me as I seem to be uncomfortable with those I relate with at the moment. I really need a change cos I really want to start a family soon. Comments:~ 5 years ago
debbyoge said: BUILD YOURSELF CONFIDENCE. FIRST OF ALL YOU ARE A MAN,START SEEING YOURSELF AS THE REAL DEAL, 1 likes ~ 5 years ago
Giwreh said: A reality Shy, really is a type of person. It is very difficult to change, as it is " you" , so to say. It' s very easy for others to tell you, you should change yourself. You probably never got the recipe with it, HOW to accomplish that ! Because, they just don' t understand it. There is way, however, to break the seal of a first contact: the help of a GOOD friend, to do that for you. Someone you trust, and who would like to introduce you to one another. Cheers no likes ~ 5 years ago
Exayvia said: Just start by saying Just start by saying HOW FAR, Then you greet the person everyday you see her. Just keep greeting, then you whine her...like ah ah you are fine today o, show us the way na. She will blush and respond. Dont run away when she responds, stand and wait for something else to talk about. Then you simply ask for her number. Thats it. The phone either through whatsapp or call is the best way an introvert can communicate. Just like how you did not fear to write all this confession. You wont be scared when chatting with her on phone. Another way to get her number is getting someone close to her preferably a guy get her number. Hide your face chat her up, then send her secret gifts claiming you are simply a secret admirer. I did that one when I was younger, it worked like kilode. Cos after some time she sha wanted to meet me by all means. So try that and get a wife. Or chat me up so I can help you get her. Dont worry I am married, so I wont steal her or something. 1 likes Add CommentPlease Login To Add Comment<< Back to confessions Write a confession |
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