Login With Facebook Or Please Join Naijapals! or Login << Back to confessions Confession Some humans can be so ungrateful. It's Christmas time and this guy that i have know for many years who have never for one day gifted me any thing. His birthday is coming up after Christmas and since I will be traveling to see my mother and will not have time to celebrate with him on that day, I decided to take my hard earned money to the store and buy him mens stuff worth #50.000. My intention was to make him happy out of my kind hearted mind and being that December is his birthday. To my greatest surprise, this guy ask me to return the items I bought for him and get my money back. Jesus!!! Am so disappointed right now. Could it be that in his mind he will feel obligated some how? I just don't know what to make out of this. As a lady I feel disrespected, because i find it rude with his actions to the point that I do not want to see him anymore. He has been calling all day I refuse to pick his calls probably he is feeling stupidly guilty for treating me in that manner. Right now, I have decided to donate these gift to the homeless at least they will appreciate it. Comments:~ 6 years ago
aisocool17 said: Calm down Firstly, I must commend you for going out of your way to getting your guy a gift. That was really thoughtful of you. However, some guys feel a lil bit inadequate when their woman spend on them. They feel belittled especially those who have a bit of ego and not financially fit as you. It's not necessarily a bad thing. A man loves to feel in charge. Don't ruin your relationship by jumping into conclusion, try to pick up his own and hear what he has to say. no likes ~ 6 years ago
Ufuoma_ said: Wow! gift gone wrong. Take it easy miss. Am sure your man want those gift, he is just too ashame to accept it. You know some men and their ego. Just put yourself together pick his calls. Some men with empty pocket act that way because they don' t want it to be a routine thing that you will be expecting them to get you something occasionally. On the other hand, a real man would have appreciated your kind gestures and accept the gift even if they don' t like it. Reason why, because they care that you thought about them to get them something special. Not every girl out there go out of their way to get their men gift. Many of them only know how to take, take, and take. Till the guy become broke. So, dont let his reaction threaten your relationship. But next time make sure you keep your cash to yourself or better still, small donations to motherless kids will be a smart alternative. Good luck. no likes Add CommentPlease Login To Add Comment<< Back to confessions Write a confession |
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