![]() Login With Facebook Or Please Join Naijapals! or Login << Back to confessions Confession good evening, I really need your help urgently in making a decision. I recently left a relationship and I have decided to give myself some time before I get into a new one. Not long after, I met this guy who came off to be a very gentleman who lived for and loved God. He spoke to me about relationships and dating and that he really needed to be in a relationship with me and I told him truthfully that I wasn't ready to start this whole thing again. We became friends I started visiting him at his workplace. But there is gentleman there that is always passing comments that seem as if he's trying to send a message across to me anytime I go there. One day on one of such visits the gentleman said something that made me visit my friend's IG page and I found something revealing. He apparently posted pics of his gf (meanwhile he said he wasn't dating) and kept promoting her business on his page. He asked me out for lunch one afternoon and whilst we were eating he told me that he's decided to get back into a relationship with his ex. I congratulated him and asked her name just to confirm if she was the person I suspected on his page. Lo and behold it was her. He later told me that they were going. Just today, he called to say that since I'm not working, there an opportunity in his office (he is the CEO), and that I should come for an interview tomorrow which I gladly accepted at first. But upon chatting with him concerning it, I realised his gf is the person going to interview me. I really need your suggestions as to whether I should go for the interview or not. P. S. The guy and I are only friends and at the point he told me he was in a relationship, I kept my distance because I didn't want to come between them Comments:~ 6 years ago
Exayvia said: So what is the problem You say you no do. Now he is back with his ex apparently you dont feel 100% glad about how it has turned out. The feelings for him were gradually growing before it was aborted when you discovered new things. If truly you see him as JUST A FRIEND go for the interview and the business between you and him will be strictly work. But if you know deep in your heart you will feel hurt if you jam his ex smooching the hell out of him in the office, then better stay at home and stop interacting with him on all levels. no likes ~ 6 years ago
chanst said: why are you still considering? unless there are things u didn' t revealed to us here. meanwhile I don' t see anything wrong about honouring the interview A trial neva hurts no likes ~ 6 years ago
Liliya said: Ha! Better go get that job. You have sorted things with him. The fact his girl is there makes it easy for you to keep off each other. Go! no likes Add CommentPlease Login To Add Comment<< Back to confessions Write a confession |
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