Login With Facebook Or Please Join Naijapals! or Login << Back to confessions Confession is it my duty as a wife to dress the bed ? Because my husband is beginning to get on my nerves, he is getting me so mad and if I react it can be bloody . Every time he wakes up he leave me to dress the bed and he will just go to work , I am tired of doing it because I work too not like I am not busy or jobless this is becoming a crazy habit .so today I intentionally refused to dress the bed and we just got back from work, the next thing he did was call me lazy and started throwing out the sheets from the bed, I just ignored him and went to the guest room and this is were I will be till Moro . Since nobody can dress the bed let us sleep in another room , he is crazy . Comments:~ 5 years ago
apprehended said: Hahahaha Another joker, i strongly suggest u get a life hahahaha lazy goat -1 likes ~ 5 years ago
pat7alfred2 said: Share duties Your complaint about not making your bed tells me you don' t clean up the room before you leave for work. you don' t have to be mad your husband lets you do the bed; cause the madder you get, the madder you make him. so I will advise you to, in your (the two of you) good time, talk about sharing the chores. you can clean the room while he makes the bed. promise him something you know he won' t refuse if he accepts your proposal and make sure to fulfill your promise if he accepts. Good luck no likes ~ 5 years ago
Exayvia said: Hmm you are already acting crazy Sister first understand this....women are meant to submit to their husbands. That is the law, whether bible, quran or traditional. If you dont like it, in your next life you can be a man, but in this one you are a woman and have to deal with some nonsense our manly ego might wanna dish you women. I apologise on behalf of your husband he is not crazy like you said he is just being an african man. Normally as the woman, the home is your domain, forget the idea that men are the head of the home. You women control most of our decisions. We are like president but you are like cabal. So calm down. I personally have an ego just like every man, but I feel its selfish if my wife has a lot on her hands and I refuse to help her because I am the so called man of the house. Your husband should help no doubt. But dont push it on him. Just do what needs to be done to keep the peace. Dont let Satan come into your home and let both your angers get the best of you. Cos when you think of it, if this erupts to a big fight and people ask you what was the cause, you and I know that your answer would be a laughing stock. But like a friend of mine used to say God works in mysterious ways and Satan works also in mysterious ways. I have heard of a couple that divorced after a few months because of toothpaste....dont let yours get to that level over mattress. Stay humble and do all you can, in the end he will listen to everything you tell him to do. Calm down 1 likes ~ 5 years ago
Ecosystem98 said: if you are getting so worked up Give him conditions if you are to make the bed alone. dont bring fight to the family. There are other women out there who are ready to be making the bed 6times a day just to get a husband or rather, to have a happy home. i bet you dont wanna be in their shoes. if the love you have built for years could merely be strangled by a bedsheet. Omg! Thats crazy and stupid. no likes ~ 5 years ago
cappucinocupcake said: lought out loud u aint serious u complain about what u suppose to do, what do men know about making beds .be serious lady thats ur job 1 likes ~ 5 years ago
chanst said: bluntly it' s ur job if he likes he might help... come to think of it.. bed redressing is the only problem in ur family? then count urself lucky. let not this trifle bring huge chasm u might not fill in ur lifetime no likes ~ 5 years ago
ojblaze74 said: Proverbs 14 v 1 The wise woman builds her house, but with her own hands the foolish one tears hers down. Woman, by this behavior of yours, you are have started inviting another woman to replace you, what does it take to make up a bed? woman, use your teeth to count your teeth. 1 likes ~ 4 years ago
Liliya said: Hmm So he knows the bed needs fixing? He intentionally likes to provoke you. Why call you names? Its immature of him to do so! But woman, making bed is no issue oh. If that' s all you got as challenge, Do it. But talk about it. no likes ~ 4 years ago
peleadeyemi said: bed making Madam don' t destroy ur home because of bed making. Build ur home with love and respect. no likes Add CommentPlease Login To Add Comment<< Back to confessions Write a confession |
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