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Okay so i met this guy recently. We get along quite well but the problem is intimacy. I explained to him that i wouldn't like to get intimate with any man until marriage. I told him about how my last experience (which was actually my first) didn't go well. My last relationship was filled with Promises and sweet talks, my defenses was broken and the fact that I was naive made it alot easier to be fooled... at the end of the day i realised those things were just said and done just for the sake of sexual intimacy and nothing more. About this new guy now, he goes on about how much he loves me and says although he might not be expressive enough in showing it but he really loves me. He said he wishes to start a family with me and he's waiting for me to be ready so we'll give birth to cute kids together (he says that both jokingly and seriously).. Recently, i stayed a day over at his place, he tried getting intimate, i resisted.. and then he said with a smile "okay no problem, it's not all about sex tho" we were cool, we cuddled and slept off and then i left the next day.. when i got home, i thanked him over the phone, for having me at his place (that was the first time i spent the night). His reply "it's your house too dear"..(i told him not to tease me and he said he wasn't teasing and that he really meant it, when i said i doubt if he truly likes me that much, he said "okay")... ever since then, he's been acting a bit weird and strange.. he ignored my call twice, replies my message a bit differently. i feel really bad. i love this guy so much, i don't make it obvious tho but i really wish things could work out between us and eventually lead to marriage. i know he's a really nice guy, he has this very good personality that draws me to him and he's not Lazy, but right now I'm so worried and scared. What if i give in and things don't go well? What if he's just being nice for the sex and all.. cos Whenever I'm about to leave after a visit, he doesn't hug or kiss me outside to say goodbye.. he says he's not into PDA (public display of affection).. i can't even differentiate anymore and i really can't stand the hear

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~ 2 months ago oluwawaibee said:
Election Result: Why I Won’t Call Buhari – Atiku
The presidential candidate of the Peoples Democratic Party (PDP) in last Saturday’s election, Atiku Abubakar, has rejected the outcome of the poll which placed President Muhammadu Buhari of the ruling All Progressives Congress (APC) as winner. Atiku, in a statement by his Media Office on Wednesday said he is a democrat but has not congratulated Buhari because the election was allegedly rigged. The former Vice President said if he had lost in a free and fair election, he would have called Buhari to congratulate him and also contribute his quota to ensure the unity and progress of the nation as a bridge between the North and the South. “With regards to the Presidential elections that took place on February 23, 2019, it is clear that there were manifest and premeditated malpractices in many states which negate the results announced. “One obvious red flag is the statistical impossibility of states ravaged by the war on terror generating much higher voter turnouts than peaceful states. The suppressed votes in my strongholds are so apparent and amateurish, that I am ashamed as a Nigerian that such could be allowed to happen. “How can total votes in Akwa-Ibom, for instance, be 50% less than what they were in 2015? “Another glaring anomaly is the disruption of voting in strongholds of the Peoples Democratic Party in Lagos, Akwa-Ibom, Rivers and diverse other states, with the authorities doing little or nothing and in some cases facilitating these unfortunate situations. “The militarization of the electoral process is a disservice to our democracy and a throwback to the jackboot era of military dictatorship. “In some areas of the country, such as, Rivers, Akwa Ibom and Imo states, troops deployed for the elections turned their guns on the very citizens they were meant to protect. This is condemnable and should not be associated with our electoral process in the future. “I am a democrat and there are democratic avenues available to present the truth to the nation and the watching world. Already, many international observers have given their verdicts, which corroborate our observations. I am sure more will come in the coming hours and days. “However, in my democratic struggles for the past three decades, I have never seen our democracy so debased as it was on Saturday, February 23, 2019. 2007 was a challenge, but President Yar’Adua was remorseful. In 2019, it is sad to see those who trampled on democracy thumping their noses down on the Nigerian people. “Consequently, I hereby reject the result of the February 23, 2019 sham election and will be challenging it in court. “I want to assure my supporters and the entire Nigerian people that together, we will not allow democracy to be emasculated. “I hope and pray Nigerians will someday summon the courage to defend democracy. That is the only way we can move away from being the world headquarters for extreme poverty,” he said.
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~ 2 months ago apprehended said:
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Suck on or leave it, Entire world is a gamble. If world was perfect, guess wht.. everyone wld be heffin RICH! Tht bn said.. get outta here before i really insult u fatigued monkey hahaha
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~ 2 months ago gidilagnews said:
Veteran Yoruba Actor, Fadeyi Oloro Is Sick, Lands In Hospital
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~ 2 months ago gidilagnews said:
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~ 2 months ago gidilagnews said:
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~ 2 months ago aquabassey4 said:
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~ 1 month ago EDDYPRINCE said:
HMMMMMMMMMMM
men are tricky, dont fall for his trick stand your ground no matter what he do,at last he will love and respect you more
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~ 1 month ago SweetDaddy1 said:
NON VIRGIN
If you like him, both of you should go for HIV test. If negative there is nothing wrong in having sex, it' s a normal thing. A hard working man would want to marry and have children. A woman who is no more a virgin can make a good man change his mind about her if she say no sex before marriage, only a woman who is a virgin can say no sex before marriage with authority.
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