Login With Facebook Or Please Join Naijapals! or Login << Back to confessions Confession Good morning my brothers & sisters, Please I know my write up is very lengthy, please help me to take your time to go thru it as I am depressed. God bless u. I & my husband has been traditionally & legally married for 3 years now, and we have been hoping on God for the fruit of the womb. However, my issue goes like this. My hubby has been out of job for the past two years and few months, doing this period, I have been the one managing the affair of the house irrespective of my family that also depend on me. During this period, we quarrel a lot because whenever I give him ideas on what I think can fetch him money, he will feel relax and ignore my ideas to the extent that oneday I have to voice out my mind to him rudely, which I still went back to kneel down beg to him. I beg him severally because I am a free minded person. There was a day my pastor told him to send his CV, my hubby refused to send it. I have to plead with my hubby to send the CV which he eventually said I should send it myself and he still didn’t follow up the CV sent. I also advise him to further his education, because he is not a graduate (but he is very sound), he pick up a quarrel with me regarding that. I ensure there is food at home and sometimes when I have enough fund, I do send money to his account so that he can get something for himself, many things I can’t recur. 1st week of December 2018, I took him to a prayer house, they saw vision that my hubby is a great person and that someone is blocking him. The pastor anoint & pray for him. 4th week of December 2018, my hubby got a call for a construction job in Ogun state which he traveled on the 28th Dec. 2018 and uptill now my hubby is not back home. He picks my calls whenever he feels like, he read my chart sometimes without response. I can barely say since he travelled, we haven’t spoken for like 3 to 4 times. I keep asking him in what way have I wronged him and even apologies for what I know nothing about. He keeps sending chart to me that is my attitude. I responded to him that for the past 2 years and few months u have been out of job and is not that he has gotten a job that my attitude has suddenly changed. I have been begging him and even asked him severally if I should visit where he is, he refused. My family are aware of what is happening and I have communicated with his family too about this, it seems they are not taking it serious. Kindly advise me on steps I need to take, I am getting tried. I will be 30years in May 2019. Please don’t mind my grammar above, I am in pains. Comments:~ 5 years ago
benson4you said: Move on Dear I feel your pains but to cut the long story short, your husband no longer or has interest in the marriage. From what I observed there is no more love in the relationship so pretending to be fine will only make matters worse. I know its hard to move on but at this time believe me that is the best decision to save you from depression. With time you will survive without him. You need to be happy and there' s someone out there who is deing to meet someone like you. 3 likes ~ 5 years ago
dafakp said: sorry You have tried, give him some time. If he does not respond positively. Go and find your man. 2 likes ~ 5 years ago
apprehended said: Writer Omfg wht da heck wrong with u? I got tired of ya piece after tha fourth paragraph hahaha. No way am gon comment on each para, no no.. heck no. I suggest u fast and pray over it, or cut the misguided fool loose. Yea yea i get it.. not gon be easy but sometimes u gotta do wht u gotta do. Very unfortunate this is happening but things u cant control.. u let them go. Ur lucky am in a heffin good mood hahaha. And by the way ur grammar on point. no likes ~ 5 years ago
Zarabae said: It's well Good thing you don' t have a child with him. Still meet the pastor that prayed for his breakthrough to look into the matter. If he' s under any spell, let God save your marriage but if not let him go to the deepest part of hell. Do your thing and look good for your Godsent hubby...Goodluck no likes ~ 5 years ago
bishopdon said: too much for only u to bear, if their is fruit of the wombs, may be u will be comforted with ur child or children. my advise is not to give up now and do not allow depression have his way. how to do that is to determine that u must be happy no matter what the situation is. it may be hard to do but wish to suggest it, since u have begged and apologised for known and unknown offence to no avail, try to respond the way he is responding too, stop been too nice and making him feel important. if he want u guys to talk once b4 he comes back, so be. stop sending those chat too, force a peace of mind to ur body and soul and help him to finish it the way he want it. He will be surprise and jealous at the same time. 1 likes ~ 5 years ago
youngrashy said: Why Do men take a good woman for granted tho? Anyway I' m still single no likes ~ 5 years ago
EDDYPRINCE said: HMMMMMMMMMMM wicked man,meanwhile we need hear his own side of story no likes Add CommentPlease Login To Add Comment<< Back to confessions Write a confession |
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