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This is a first for me, so bear with me. I am currently involved in a long distance relationship. I am looking forward to finally meeting him he is it appears to be everything I want and need. The problems are...I am a mom and grandma and he is never married, no children. I am also 11 years his senior. I'd like him to be happy. I don't want him to resent me later since I'll never bear another child. I'll give him up, to ensure his happiness, but I want to try to see where we go, first. Am I being selfish? Should I just walk away? Or tell him how I feel and try to keep our friendship while he pursues someone his age?

He says he loves me and shows it in many ways.
Please, if you have a negative comment, do not bother. I would prefer an honest opinion, even if I didn't like it. I don't need anyone else bashing me more than I already do myself

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~ 4 years ago apprehended said:
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Are u drunk or suntin? U concluded on the right note but yet u hated insult, listen to ya sef reason, ur thinking according to me is so stupendously porous hahaha. Just stay friends, leave tha poor guy the heck alone, let him grow, dnt destroy his life hahaha. Omg wht tha heffin wrong with u, yes ur heffin selfish. To be cont.
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~ 4 years ago EDDYPRINCE said:
HMMMMMMMMMMM
NA WA OH,,, TELL HIM EVERYTHING ABOUT YOU, IF HE STILL WANT TO CONTINUE THEN NO PROB,BUT DON' T DECEIVE HIM INTO MARRIAGE AND LATE HE FINDS OUT THAT WILL BE CATASTROPHE.....MSG ME PRIVATELY GOT SOMETHING TO TELL U.. CHEERS
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~ 4 years ago Liliya said:
Hmm
Some people prefer older ones. So, tell him the truth. Let him choose. But please, allow him to have a life, don' t tie him down if you really care for him.
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~ 4 years ago youngchopper said:
Maam
No hard feelings, you should kill that feelings cuz it will get to hurt you later
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