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I discovered yesterday that my fiancee had an abortion without telling me. She spent about 3 weeks in my house last year March and on a particular day we had unprotected sex. The following morning, I gave her money to buy Postinor before leaving for work. She bought and took it, in my presence and I did not touch her again before she left my house.

The following month (April 2018), she left for NYSC camp. After camp, she came back the following month, I saw her briefly before she finally left for service. Meanwhile, all this time she was pregnant for me and she never told me. She knows I am strongly against abortion, besides why will I ask a girl I love and planning to marry to abort my baby.

Sometime around June last year, we had issues and she broke up with me. We got back together May this year. I have so many questions right now on my head and sincerely I don't even know how I am feeling right now.

And I am wondering how come she got pregnant even after taking emergency pill (Postinor) ?

And why would a woman abort a baby for a man that is willing to take full responsibility of the pregnancy and even marry her? She claims she wasn't ready to have a baby then.
The most painful part of this whole thing is she hiding it from me because she knows I would never have allowed her to have the abortion.
I don't even know if I want to continue with the marriage plans anymore, because I feel so deceived.’

Comments:

~ 4 years ago apprehended said:
Thinking..
From ya nonsense above.. ur asking how she got preggy even after taking ur hopeless emergency pills hahaha. Well tht na story for the gods u hear. U know wht eh.. I suggest u run for ya dare life.. this girl na original ogbanje, if u know sabi the meaning.. ask the next yoruba guy close to u. Shes simply nothing to write home about, u can' t bring tht monkey woman to ya mother. I have said my own o hahaha
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~ 4 years ago Kate24 said:
I see
Better run... That pregnancy was not urs
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~ 4 years ago Blesedboi said:
Women fear dem o
I' m a bit confused here BT wat I think is that if she does not want a baby now just let her be and pretend as if nothing happened else it may have effect on ya relationship
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