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Gud day guys,I am 28yrs old,but still struggling with my educational career.am supposed to av graduate dis yr Nov or December but I av results problem dat extended my yr of graduation,my problem is how will I tell my parents dis serious academic challenge???or should I stop de skoling?? without letting anybody to no Abt it,the worst of all my girlfriend I intend marrying nxt yr after skol,is hoping dt I will b a graduate dis yr n go 4 service next year....pls pals i cry every night dat all my hope in life has been destroyd,am in a depressed state of confusion i feel like ending my life any moment from now,pls pals i need ur advice on what to do pls...

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~ 4 years ago mirolam said:
Be encouraged
Listen my dear, for every situation in life there’s a way. Where you are is someone else’s dream. You’ve come this far and just because of another one year or so you feeling sorrowful. Understand than proposes and God disposes. Explain your plight to your family and girlfriend. Your family will definitely understand even though they’ll be a bit disappointed at first but will eventually embrace you and subsequently forget it ever happened. You may explain to your girlfriend and if the Lord says she’s yours and she truly wants to be with you she’ll support and wait on you even though it’ll take another 5 years( so long as she sees that you’re not intentionally delaying things). Be encouraged. Stay positive and use the word of God to encourage yourself. Knowing that the race is not to the swift. My story- I repeated my final year year in sec school/high school. I remember the feeling and was so ashamed that I thought I’ll die. My parents were upset at first because it came as a shock to them as they knew I was highly intelligent and even my teachers were surprised as to how it happened (long story). My parent eventually became supportive and rallied around me as they saw I was taking it to hard. They were scared and even thought to change my school, but never did as they weren’t buoyant enough at the time. Today I can say not as a boast. Not one of those who went ahead and passed is a pinch close to where I am today. I am highly blessed and can say that I can get anything in the world that I want without a second thought. So, this life is how you look at it. And the most good you can do to yourself and destiny is be close to the almighty God. The steps of all man kind is orchestrated by him and he is the all - knowing. When you’re down ask him to speak to your soul. And you’ll be surprise at what you’ll see when you seek him deeply. Tell him he created you and to show you the way to your destiny! Depression and death is created by the Devil to cut short glorious destiny before they blossom. Do not fall for that trick. Repeat the class and move on. 5 years from now you’ll forget you even had a year or so delay in school. Time flies. Look when we stared this year and now we’re in August. A year is almost gone so fast!! Stay fulfilled!!
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~ 4 years ago apprehended said:
Dude
Hahaha ur crazy as fck. U won get married after u graduate.. hahaha please go and get a life. Common school u no fit handle, but yet u won try death. No jus try or even think of killing ya sef there. Goat.
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~ 4 years ago sunnyboi said:
MR
Guy, i couldn' t hold back my tears as i read your story, you know why? it' s very similar to what has happened to me recently, I have come of age like you, i was expelled in my final year in the university after i had finished up my project and final year exams, mind you in my department i' m among the top 10 brilliant students, you can imagine how old will i be if i starts all over and graduates. To short the long story, i' m currently preparing to start all over again, when i mean all over its include re-writing waec or neco and jamb. I have also got a lovely and beautiful gf that i love so much with the whole of my heart and promised to marry her after graduation, right now she thought i have graduated and will be going for service this year this including her parents cuz they all know me already in her house, I don' t know how to break this bad news to them with the fear that they might not wait for me that long and give out their daughter to prospective suitors although she' s still young and seeking admission too as she just left sec sch last year. I don' t know what to do as i cry out my heart every night. I contemplated suicide but i was later advised by a close friend and a brother and i have realized it isn' t the solution but courage, focus and determination. Although, i told her about my problem i had in school but when it later escalated to been expelled i didn' t tell her to this day, but i' m finding the right time to tell her but i' m scared of loosing her to another person at the process, and i can' t afford to loose her that will be another heavy blow in my life. Even my parents i haven' t told them exception of my two brothers who are aware of the whole thing. Right now i engage myself in working in a business centre where i' m typing from right now. I stay off campus on my own so i pay my rent and i don' t intend leaving for now until i gain admission again. I' m going to register for NECO and hopefully wait for next year (2021) to re-write jamb and hopefully seek for admission again. My hope and faith now is in God' s hand. I feel useless and ashamed of myself although an invigilator during my last paper caused me this mess. I have deleted my Facebook account as i don' t want any of my course mate and friends to reach me anymore. I feel depressed, i have failed not only myself but family members and friends. I wants to believe that saying by People that (him village people they follow am). Right now i' m very close to my God and prayerful all the time. I wish i know you personally. May God' s will be done in our life bro. Take care and be focus.
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