Login With Facebook Or Please Join Naijapals! or Login << Back to confessions Confession My husband does not open car door for me .. I miss your platform and I hope you post this , I love growth and very proud to be a member . I want advice please I beg you post for me . Since I was born no man has ever opened car door for me in my life, I see it in movies but not experienced it before. I have dated o we 7 guys and finally am married and my husband will never open car door for me . Even if I ask he will say don’t I have hands, I feel so bad. I want to be loved and the only thing I ask is to open a car door and make me feel special . The car is my car but we drive it together and I even pay most of our bills yet he won’t pamper me like a woman . The painful part was when he opened the door for my friend when we went to pick her to church and when I asked him he said she was on high heels and carrying a Bible and bag . I want it so bad , I want him to just open the car door for me and make me feel special. It’s not too much to ask how do I make him do it . Comments:~ 5 years ago
Cahill777 said: Compassionate Listener Well, dear heart, I read your post and my first impression is that you' re using your POWER of CHOICE on the wrong men for you. No woman, period, should have to ask or beg a man to open the car door for them, unless of course, the woman ask him not to or she doesn' t mind him not opening the car door, at all. I do have a question for you, though: DO YOU DISTINCTLY TELL YOUR DATE IN THE BEGINNING DATE THAT YOU' D LOVE IT VERY MUCH IF THEY' D BE CHIVALROUS ENOUGH AND NICE ENOUGH TO OPEN THE CAR DOOR FOR YOU FROM TIME TO TIME? IF NOT THEN, YOU NEED TO CONSIDER JUST NOT ALLOWING THAT TO AFFECT AND EFECT YOUR LOVE FOR YOUR PRESENT HUBBY. HE' S OBVIOUSLY ONLY INTERESTED IN YOUR BODY, IT SEEMS TO ME. no likes ~ 5 years ago
dafakp said: HE SHOULD OPEN THE DOOR FOR YOU Once in a while, there should be away you should be able to pass your point no likes ~ 5 years ago
enigmaticnick said: Possibility I read with rapt attention. How well do you regard men and by extension, your husband? you don' t expect to receive what you don' t give. No right thinking man shoul be told what to do. Madam, talk less about you having the car and paying the bills, show him love and work on ur character.Good luck no likes ~ 5 years ago
Xseed said: Reply Don't make an issue out of this I tell you it's not enough to cause kasala in your marriage 1 likes ~ 5 years ago
Thomax said: Loool Many beautiful ladies are crying & praying for husbands. You have one but your issue is door opening? Hahahaha. I thought guys doing things that makes women looks weak are a thing of the past in this metoo era? Maybe if u show him the vulnerability of ur heart, he might be soft toward you. 1 likes ~ 5 years ago
SweetDaddy1 said: My husband doesn't open car door for me I use to see men open car doors for their girl friend or wife in love movies but have never seen one in real life, unless if the woman is sick or going to have a baby in the hospital. Before I thought it was Europeans that open car doors for their women but I am here in Europe and have traveled around the world and I have not seen a woman or man open car doors for their partner. Since the car belongs to you, you can employ a driver and tell the driver that his duty will include opening the car door for you. Charity begins at home, you must be from a very poor background. 1 likes ~ 4 years ago
sirchiks001 said: the car is your car! ,,,the car is your car and you want the door opened by another...lol no likes Add CommentPlease Login To Add Comment<< Back to confessions Write a confession |
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