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I dated my wife officially for 3 years before marriage even as I have known her for nine years or so. We met during my service In Kaduna in 2012.
Earlier this year we got married, around June, we moved back to Lagos to start our life as a young couple. Now the issue is that before we got married,her uncle secure a job for her at Airforce base as civilian staff with 40k salary in kaduna as she live and grow up there in KD. I seriously kicked against this job because I stay in Lagos.
Now as soon as we move to Lagos after marriage in June ,she reported to work in kaduna the following month hoping to get transfer to Lagos base.The transfer didnt come to success, less she stay put in Kd in her friends house. I am staying alone all through this period.
Mind you I also work with Gokada with 90k salary per month. My wife have left me in disarray. I notice they have less activity going in their school because she stay indoor all through yet she won't listen to my plea to return to Lagos.
I notice her sister is supporting her. I think its because I am not financially buoyant enough reason for all this mess in my life.
I was promised by her family that after marriage she would be transfer yet nothing happen til now. I am in lag, my wife is in kaduna. Unbearable, at this point I am going places I should not be going. My pals any word of advice on what to do? My heart Is heavy now

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~ 3 weeks ago chuks4peace said:
Take it easy with her
I' m sure she has plans about that too. Maybe working towards relocating to back Lagos. So I advise you to ask her what her plans are. Sit with her and hear from her. She is your wife and every woman knows the importance of staying with their husbands. So again just hear her out
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~ 3 weeks ago damballah said:
mahina
Go to your Wife and talk to her andtell how you feel you married her not her Family you too have to reach some type of agreement even seeing a Marriage Counselor if it doesn’t work you need to get a divorce and become a free man Life is supposed to be happy not stressful it really sounds like her Family is trying to make you too break up
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~ 2 weeks ago giftmurphy said:
Decision must be made
1. Talk to her,see better options 2. Call family meeting...not needed tho if she listens 2. Get her a new job your in your location or she gets you in hers. 3. One of you needs to quit If the transfer aint successful unless u wanna live your life apart then very well
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