Login With Facebook Or Please Join Naijapals! or Login << Back to confessions Confession A friend asked me a question about his relationship today and since am not a relationship therapist, I chose to throw the question here for public opinion. His girlfriend travelled from Benin to visit him at Asaba. He would have gone for a party organized by one of his office colleague that afternoon but in order to spend quality time with his girlfriend, he lied to the hearing of people in the office that he will travel that weekend for an important issues. The venue for the office event is also in the guys street. On the girlfriend's arrival to Asaba, she called him to come and wait for her at his street junction so they can go inside together. He tried to explain to his girlfriend why he wouldn't want to come out to avoid his office colleagues seeing him. Remember that the venue for the party is in the guy's street. His girlfriend responded on phone that such a reason is an unnecessary excuse for him not to come out to his street junction and wait for her. She finally came in and was very angry. He tried so much to explained to her in details why he didn't want to come out but she wasn't considerate at all. All she was saying is that it doesn't matter if his office people see him because she came from a distance for him. Both of them claims to be right on their own reasoning and peace disappeared from this beautiful relationship. They want to hear from the public to know who actually offended the other. What is your take on this matter? Is it okay the way the guy didn't come out to welcome his girlfriend? Would it have been a good decision if the guy came out to welcome his girlfriend after lying to his office colleagues that he will travel during the weekend? Your advice to the girl and the guy is needed to settle this matter in their relationship. Comments:~ 1 year ago
Nelson225 said: Ungrateful lot Hi. The girl is ungrateful judging that she doesn' t really care about the guy but herself. She' s supposed to think about what happens if the guy was to be caught to have lied to his work place, definitely lose his job innit? He deserve better and should seek someone else for love, cos she' s clearly not a good match for someone who sacrificed his work day for her presence, which wasn' t good enough of course. no likes ~ 1 year ago
Makodama said: Failed relationship already. A relationship that lacks understanding in it is a highway to future divorce. no likes ~ 10 months ago
WILLIAMS99 said: BOTH ARE WRONG if he was so eager to lie about not attending the party, the best he could think of was travelling? when the venue was on the same street where he lives? All he had to do was give a befitting excuse such that even though he was seen nobody would be worried. Also it is a party not an official function so who cares if he is seen or not. He would not be the first to lie just to dodge an hangout so why was he so worried. the lady was inconsiderate for not wanting to see things from his view. no likes Add CommentPlease Login To Add Comment<< Back to confessions Write a confession |
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