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I got married early last year, because I was pregnant. I love my husband and daughter, but marriage is not as interesting as I thought it would be.

We both have good jobs and my mom helps in looking after the child when I’m away in the office. I also have a fairly well behaved maid.

Yet, I’m not happy. I see the years ahead stretching out like this and I feel disillusioned.

I don’t even know if my husband feels the same way, as I haven’t discussed it with him, in case he feels hurt.

Please help.


~ 1 year ago apprehended said:
Like I care for your feelings, get lost.

~ 11 months ago WILLIAMS99 said:
If you feel this way, i would recommend you see a therapist. As you have two choices 1, Adjust to marriage life, accept things the way they are and make changes where you want. 2, you leave the marriage until you believe you are ready for what it entails. I give you my wisdom. #Daimon_Cares
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~ 9 months ago walterk15 said:
Take things ease and enjoy your life
Hey, life is no bed of roses, life is defined by decisions and not feelings, now wake up everyday and praise yourself and husband, decide to enjoy your everday, one day at a time and then set new goals for you and your husband and enitre family. let it be both social, financial and business goals.just each one goal for each section for the year, 4- is enough or 5. Take yourself and husband out with your own earned money sometimes, nice restuarant, nice hotels and enjoy this beautiful small life God has given you. Above all never compare yourself with others, let them be, but u can learn and know somethings about others so u can also implement somethings with wisdom. Take all these points seriously. Enjoy your life it is truly short.

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