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I recently discovered my husband had been ‘talking’ with another woman behind my back for almost two years.

I felt totally shocked that I didn’t know this woman and that he’d never mentioned her to me. I obviously assumed they were having a sexual relationship.

So, I confronted him and he denied it, saying they were friends but he didn’t want to tell me about their friendship because he didn’t think I would understand.

I felt lied to and betrayed – if he had nothing to hide, why not say something?

It hurts to know that he’s been keeping this a secret from me and I don’t see how I can ever trust him again. I did get in touch with the woman in question and she assured me that their relationship wasn’t sexual and that she is happy with her partner.

She even said she doesn’t know why my husband wasn’t open about their friendship.
Instead of being sorry and wanting to make it up with me, he just seems angry that I’ve ruined this friendship for him.

To make things worse, his friends and parents don’t believe he’s done anything wrong, and think I’m the one who’s being unreasonable.

Do you think I am?


~ 1 year ago apprehended said:
Ok what do you want us to do for you? If you like you can leave him, idiot.
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~ 11 months ago WILLIAMS99 said:
Not necessary
Your husband has assured you there is nothing going on between him and the lady, which the same lady confirmed. So i would recommend you accept it as it is and move on with your life. Dont stress your self as it is not required.

~ 6 months ago Giwreh said:
I presume, we all have simple friendships in life. Multiple ones. When reading a story, my first thought always goes: where is the other half of the full story? (The story from the other person.)

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