Login With Facebook Or Please Join Naijapals! or Login A friend asked me a question about his relationship today and since am not a relationship therapist, I chose to throw the question here for public opinion. His girlfriend travelled from Benin to visit him at Asaba. He would have gone for a party organized by one of his office colleague that afternoon but in order to spend quality time with his girlfriend, he lied to the hearing of people in the office that he will travel that weekend for an important issues. The venue for the office event is also in the guys street. On the girlfriend's arrival to Asaba, she called him to come and wait for her at his street junction so they can go inside together. He tried to explain to his girlfriend why he wouldn't want to come out to avoid his office colleagues seeing him. Remember that the venue for the party is in the guy's street. His girlfriend responded on phone that such a reason is an unnecessary excuse for him not to come out to his street junction and wait for her. She finally came in and was very angry. He tried so much to explained to her in details why he didn't want to come out but she wasn't considerate at all. All she was saying is that it doesn't matter if his office people see him because she came from a distance for him. Both of them claims to be right on their own reasoning and peace disappeared from this beautiful relationship. They want to hear from the public to know who actually offended the other. What is your take on this matter? Is it okay the way the guy didn't come out to welcome his girlfriend? Would it have been a good decision if the guy came out to welcome his girlfriend after lying to his office colleagues that he will travel during the weekend? Your advice to the girl and the guy is needed to settle this matter in their relationship. View comments (4) | Add comment We met, I got pregnant, he came and paid my bride price and I went home with him. I was just 19. We went to his parent's house. The level of education in their family was not to be compared to mine. They didn't maltreat me but it was rough. I did all the chores in the family house from cleaning the duplex to cooking and serving everyone including his siblings who were grown-up boys but just wouldn't help. It was so tough that I lost the child. Yet they said I was too lazy. The first evacuation was done by his sister, a doctor, and I had cramps for two days. They kept telling me that I couldn't bear the pain. After I screamed, they took me to the hospital and the scan revealed that it wasn't done well. Immediately after that, my husband changed. He would go out and if I asked where he went, he would beat me up. He was a really lovely person but I think he was beating me because I was far younger. I remember that once his younger brother stood up for me and he accused me of trying to come between them. I can't even speak of the things I saw. I started having high blood pressure at that age. I was torn because sometimes he would act as if he loved me, and boast to his friends about how I was way better than his ex; at other times, he would beat me, so I wasn't free around him. He would tell me to kneel and flog me with his belt. He would even count the number of strokes and I'd have to raise my hands and close my eyes. View comments (1) | Add comment I have a dream of meeting a nigeeian girl with a stallion. Nigeria sucking horse when you are going to be to get paid. Love to have a Nigeria girlfriend and i have lots of education. Identity creation and validation ICAV course. But my dream of meeting a nigeeian girl who is going to first fuck me and make money View comments (2) | Add comment Where are all those Naijapal members that used to make this platform fun and lively? People like Kennee, Oyinminojoor, Sophiababy, Aprehended and the rest? I can't even remember their names anymore. The only one I see here is Apprehended. What happens people? You all get married and get too busy for fun or what???????? Jezz missed them all. View comments (4) | Add comment Last Christmas, I stayed over with one of my friends and slept on her sofa. Next thing I knew, her boyfriend was leaning over me and kissing me. Of course, I pushed him away – but ever since, he’s been calling me and texting me, asking for us to meet up. And once, when I was around having a meal with them, he even started rubbing my leg under the dining table! But now they’ve announced they’re getting married and I don’t know whether or not to tell my friend what her man has been doing. If I do tell her, she might not listen but at the same time, I don’t want her to make the biggest mistake of her life by getting married to that man. Please can you help? I just don’t know what to do. View comments (8) | Add comment Write a confession |
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