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Hi pals
Am a beautiful girl,educated,respect ful and fun to be with..
I don't know what am doing wrong..
I keep dating the wrong people or should I say the wrong people keep coming my way
I'm in my late twenties and am worried about marriage as every normal girl about my age..i
I have attainable standards and yet I still can't seem to find love.
I have been single for as long as I can remember and very lonely.sometimes I make bad decisions because of this loneliness and it only makes matters worse..
Is there anything am missing?
Y are only unserious guys coming?
Does it mean that am going to end up marrying someone I don't love or feel attracted to?
All the guys who I like even slightly or are a little bit okay just want to play games
And the ones who I'm not attracted to are serious..is that how people get married?
Should I just marry someone I don't like and stop having hopes..
Please help guys..am becoming depressed

Comments:

~ 6 years ago donslmnstvn said:
My dear, you are not the only one in this situation.
We are have and still passing through this. Sometimes the people u love don' t love u back in return and the ones you don' t love keep loving u and want u by all means. Men are hunters so getting the sincere ones are just few why many wants to play games and nothing more. You just have to be patience and selectively pick sm1 u want to date, u don' t just pick anybody becos u are desperate to get marry, some guyz might sense dis and take advantage of u. Exercise some patience and u will get sm1 but be wise.
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~ 6 years ago kison said:
Ok na.
Just be careful
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~ 6 years ago penny78 said:
Hi
It' s not a problem. .It happens. .u can' t get everything as u want it always. .best thing is to humble yourself and apply wisdom. .do not rush into any relationship and i hope been beautiful like u said is not deceiving u because that is what keep most girls at their fathers house until to become old and faded. .u need to be humble and patience. .sometimes the choice of your man will lead u to dating wrong ones ...I guess u are after fine boys that' s why u are getting wrong ones. .been too selective will always lead u to the wrong hands. .so chill , behave and u will find true love.
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~ 6 years ago popsweet said:
Depressed Nd desperate at a point.. only u?
Marriage! Marriage! Marriage!
Y can't some ladies go into relationship peaceful.. without dis crazy expectation of marriage.. please deviate ur mind from marriage now.. Nd concentrate more on your own happiness.. a man must not be ur only priority in life.. marriage is good for sure.. but if it happens fine.. but if not relax ur mind Nd have some fun!
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~ 6 years ago hero4life said:
U are not Alone!
That is y u need JESUS... dedicate urself to God with a clean heart - but u go suffer small shall because good things doesn' t come easy! some guys like me have trust issues especially when it come to marriage. some guys see some ladies as a gold digger or as a desperado. As 4 u my sister, i encourage u to believe in God for a better guy and i promise u won' t regret it. u can inbox me for a chat if u don' t mind.
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~ 6 years ago youngrashy said:
Baby
How can you be lonely when am here?..Dont mind those stupid guys..
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~ 6 years ago christianity said:
Confee..
That' s life for u,it does not only happen to women,it also does to men.those u love loves others and those u don' t love are the ones dying for u.that' s y its called game of the heart, care for those that values u,and pass by those that does not value u.
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~ 6 years ago gogoman said:
HI
keep hustling u go get your own
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~ 6 years ago quest3 said:
@confee
I just dey look you first if you want make mistake for your life I want to tell you this, there are three kinds of men. The Hunters, The scavengers and the The farmers......your ability to differentiate which one comes into your life will help you a great deal. I always advised you go for the farmers.
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~ 6 years ago istkingz01 said:
istkings
*Nice Confession* Well, all I can say is ...... Its not all about being beautiful, educated and fun to be with. It more in being accommodative, respective, resourceful, prayerful and most of it all God-fearing. And hey, your personal hygiene, cos nothing keeps a man like that. For more advice, contact *Istkingz* personally. May God bless and Help u outta yur present situation. *Uyai Iban*
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