Login With Facebook Or Please Join Naijapals! or Login Yoruba says: Oruko Rere Dara ju Wura ati fadaka lo. Which means a Good name is better than Gold and silver. "Where l'm from, before you can enter the door of opportunity, the person there is going to ask for your name. If your father's name does not ring a bell, the door won't be opened. So, you have to force your way in through hustle— whether legal or illegal-to make your own name ring a bell, so that your children can easily enter the door of opportunity." View comments (22) | Add comment My mother-in-law left her home just to come & ruin the peace in my marriage. I'm so fed up & tired of this woman Since I got married to my husband, his family keep demanding financial help here and there, just cos he happens to be the first child forgetting that he is now a married man. Him being first son doesn't mean he's going to carry everyone's problems in the family. The woman raised him & his 2 other siblings as a single mom when their father d!éd; my husband was 8 then. I think she struggled & sponsored my husband before God finally stepped in & blessed him with a good job. But now she has been capitalizing on that, & they keep asking for money from my husband, forgetting that he also has a wife & a son. We've been married for just a year & a half. My husband might not be complaining, but I'm his wife, it's in my place to advise & guide him, which is very normal. We also have our own problems that need to be solved. I understand that my husband might be the breadwinner, but the point is that he is married too. For goodness sake, I'm his wife now & my family also needs financial help; I also have siblings who need academic financial help as well. Even the Bible says a man shall leave his mother and father to be with his wife so they make make a lovely home. But how can that ever be possible when all these people do is ask for money? Now, She came to my house just to make trouble coz she heard I'm the one refusing her son to grant financial help. I've tried to make her understand that he is now a married man & we also have issues, but she isn't willing to listen. Instead, she makes me feel uncomfortable in my own home for the past 2 weeks. My husband sits there & says nothing. Pls help me; how do I handle this situation? I mean Why am I his wife if I can't get financial help from my own husband for my family or at least direct or advise him on how to manage his finances? I'm getting tired coz this issue is really getting to me & to be honest, I might quit the marriage. I'm fedup already pls! View comments (332) | Add comment Permitting your daughter to work at a bar, club or brothel is the greatest disservice you can ever do to them as a parent or guardian. You are only setting them up to be targets and preys for a world already shrouded in darkness and a system designed to exploit them. G!rls into nightlife and high social life, mirror selfies from hotel rooms, shisha puffing, updating locations on fleek. I put this to you, NO GIRL working in such environments can outsmart men’s mercurial cunning. If she’s out in those streets, someone is definitely smashing but no worries, Your g!rl different. View comments (26) | Add comment The guy is just so boring in bed, he doesn't m0an during s-x. No matter what, even when he's enjoying it. Severally I've tried to talk to him about it. I've begged & pleaded with this man severally to at least, even try & make small sound to turn me on more.. because it's really getting annoying. Everytime, persin go just dey keep quiet like wood. Na only silent knacking. Me sef i don kukuma stop to the m0an because I'm tired & i dey vex. Both of us go dey knack & just dey look ourselves, na just fukum fukum persin go dey hear.... My hubby is a good man, he loves me & treats me right but, this is the only issue i have with him. This might sound little but to be honest, it's affecting our marriage. It's 3 months of marriage but it's getting boring already. Fukum, fukum with no sweetness... I don tire abeg Plz i need help on how to handle this kind of man. Even when he's cú'm"" m"" ng. I'll steadily be looking at his face to see if he'll even make a sound. but instead Human being go just dey silent like stick.. pls I'm getting tired of the whole marriage thing abeg, I'm not sure this is how I want to spend the rest of my l!fe... I honestly know I won't be able to keep up like this. I'm afraid of what I'm nursing in my mind View comments (30) | Add comment My wife has refused my mom coming to live with us ever since we got married, & I don't want to hurt my wife; I love her so much. I'm 41 years old, married 8 months ago. I understand that we are a newly married couple & we need space, but then, I'm the only child of my mom. Lost my dad at age 4, Mom raised me as a single parent. And today I'm a very successful man.. Actually, Momma used to be active; I used to go to the village & visit her, but now she is no longer as strong as she used to be. I feel she should be close to me so I can keep a close watch on her diet, health & be in a better position to take proper care of her. But the issue is, my wife is 4 months pregnant & has completely refused that I bring my mom to live with us in the same house.. I really don't understand because her own mom visits us on a weekly basis, & I'm always good to her, but my own mom isn't allowed to stay with us. Whenever I try asking why that is, she'll say she needs space to enjoy her marriage. Honestly, I love my wife just so much, & she loves me too; I'll practically do anything for her. My wife, is such a sweet woman, & I really don't want her to feel hurt, especially now that she's carrying my first child. I fear something might go wrong. Please help me; I need your advice and guidance concerning this issue. 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