Login With Facebook Or Please Join Naijapals! or Login Please am dying emotionally.So I have this boyfriend we have been dating almost two years now. Somethings happened last year and he said he want break up but I try to talk to him and fix the things he pointed out as the reason for breakup.So we continue but all am seeing is as if am forcing myself so I asked for a breakup too then he later came to apologize with his friend saying he has realized his mistakes.I accepted him and few weeks later I discovered I am pregnant he vexed up many things happened I mange and struggle tho he sends money and we still talk like bf and gf when quarrel went down.I am close to delivery less than a month now,but I am not feeling the vibe in him all am seeing is pretense,so I asked him today the truth about the matter and he said the time he came with his friend to apologize that he only PITIED me(I haven’t discovered I was pregnant)I felt so sad,our family already met,now I feel like leaving the relationship (cus reasoning the word PITY shows no love) before the child because after the child we might end up together and he will still say he is with me because of the child.Am just confused (he still send me money,come to sleep over,buys gift for me) View comments (0) | Add comment This is a first for me, so bear with me. I am currently involved in a long distance relationship. I am looking forward to finally meeting him he is it appears to be everything I want and need. The problems are...I am a mom and grandma and he is never married, no children. I am also 11 years his senior. I'd like him to be happy. I don't want him to resent me later since I'll never bear another child. I'll give him up, to ensure his happiness, but I want to try to see where we go, first. Am I being selfish? Should I just walk away? Or tell him how I feel and try to keep our friendship while he pursues someone his age? He says he loves me and shows it in many ways. Please, if you have a negative comment, do not bother. I would prefer an honest opinion, even if I didn't like it. I don't need anyone else bashing me more than I already do myself View comments (0) | Add comment Okay so I have this amazing boyfriend living abroad that has been nothing short of a dream. He takes care of me, sends me money regularly and he's just been there, my pillar and my rock while I, on the other hand is still in school. My question is this, how do you be the 'perfect' lady for this kind of man? These days I feel sad cos I bring nothing to the table. Don't get me wrong, I am intelligent, I talk to him everyday even with the crazy time difference, I make him laugh and I listen to him but I feel like that's not enough. What more can I bring to the table to show I appreciate him. I can't send him money, I don't even have enough myself as I am not working yet, I can't give him mind blowing sex, he's far away. Please what can I give to make it balanced? Should I send him prayers everyday? Should I send appreciative messages once in a week? What should I do abeg, this man deserves it and more. View comments (3) | Add comment I don’t know why . I don’t want to marry her and I don’t want her to be With another man, I find myself upset each time I see her with another, I will be so angry and sometimes I go as far as causing problems once I see she is in a relationship or I see any man around her . I don’t know if I love her but I don’t think I want to marry or date her . I just want her to be with me alone , maybe as a best friend but why do I get angry. We are not dating, we are just friends and I don’t feel anything for her, I want to be in her life but yet I want to be out, I have a girlfriend but she is not angry when I am with her but I am angry when she is with them . My body is paining me from the last work out View comments (5) | Add comment I am a 28 years single mom of 4kids(2 boys and 2gurls). I'll go straight to my point.. I met this guy sometime last year during my divorce and right now the guys is deeply in love with me.. I say he and not we because for me I'm on and off with moods swings and anger and pain from the previous relationship.. So I'm not 100percent certain of how I feel but I sincerely like the guy.. My fear is why will a young man of 32 be so much in love with me? I've done everything to chase him away, sometimes I keep offence over little things deliberately to scare him off, sometimes I got mood swings, sometimes I really love him and sometimes I ask him to leave but he's insistent that I am the woman for him.. He's not just said this to me countlessly but he has shown it.. The way he loves me I have never ever seen, he's introduced me to his siblings and I met some of them.. He's parents knows about how much he's willing to go with me and they are expecting me to visit them soon.. He's always interested in my growth and wants me to achieve a lot.. He's so so so so so proud of me, never fails to show me off to the world..Hes support me in his little way and with prayers.. He keeps telling me how he wants to prove to me that there are still good and faithful men out there and with the help of God he will make me happy.. He's patient, caring and just too nice to me, so nice that I wonder if I even deserve this.. He making plans, good plans, was ready to relocate me to the states but I refused cos I wasn't ready to leave my kids.. I've asked him,what will happen if his parents finds out about my previous status.. His answer dazed me.. He said first he doesn't want anyone to know and so that no one discourages him or insults me or disrespect me and he's more concerned about me and wants to make sure I get total respect from his ppl.. He said and he's willing to pay only my dowry and skip the traditional party to avoid hearsay and then we both can relocate and stay far away to avoid gossip and if his parents finally get to hear about my past, then we'd be far gone in the marriage and who knows I'll have a baby for him then... 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