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Teenage marriage is better than fornication.
Proof me wrong!
#Note: Not child marriage!
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Hello house, Pls I need mature advice on this issue.
I had to create this account as to remain anonymous.

I’ve been married for 2 years plus, with a son and expecting another.
The problem is that my wife is not proud of me, not proud to be associated with me and does not show excitement concerning me or gifts that I buy for her.. She is just too plain, too emotionless.

It started from our dating days.. We dated for a year plus.. She never wanted people to know about us. Always hiding me. As if the relationship was a secret. She never asked me for a pin.. I was happy she wasn’t the demanding type.

When I proposed to her, I expected her to go over the moon, show excitement and flood social media with pictures.. But no way.

She was just mute and calm about it. She didn’t even accept the idea of pre-wedding pictures when I suggested it.. Said it wasn’t compulsory, she doesn’t have time and energy for that..Few weeks later, she uploaded very beautiful studio pictures of herself alone in nice clothing, shoes, accessories on her facebook timeline without any caption about getting married or love.. Nothing about me at all.

Wedding came… She opted for a small quiet wedding.. Although we could afford a big wedding.. I was surprised.. So unfeminine… Women always prefer loud crowded weddings to show off..

She was supposed to be extremely excited as she was getting married esp at over 30 years when a woman is considered by societal standards to be hopeless and too old for marriage but no! She went about the whole festivities like nothing special was happening to her.

After the wedding, she didn’t upload our wedding pictures on social media like normal women do. I then uploaded few pictures of us and tagged her. She immediately untagged herself and told me I could post whatever I wanted without necessarily tagging her.

Months after, she uploaded 2 pictures of herself alone in wedding gown and traditional attire.. None of mine till date.

She doesn’t have any picture of me or us together on her facebook profile, she doesn’t upload any picture of me or us on her whatsapp. It’s always her picture alone or with our baby or her parents and siblings.

She hardly even takes pictures with me at social functions. She prefers personal pictures. Sometimes, she will even crop me out of her pictures and post only herself. She just keeps going on as if I don’t exist. When I ask her why, she says she doesn’t need to display me online to know she is married to me.

On my birthday, she didn’t wish me HBD on any social media platform but she uploaded pictures of her 2 male colleagues at work(she is a medical doctor, a surgeon in training and planning to relocate abroad soon) and wished them HBD, wrote nice things about them.

Back home, all I got was a small get together, cake, drinks and gifts but I would have preferred to be acknowledged online as well. On her birthday, I dare not show her off or say anything on social media, she won’t find it funny.. She prefers everything we do is private.

The part that breaks my heart is her attitude towards gifts.. When I met her, she was working, earning big, lived alone and had a car.I was happy she wasn’t demanding or greedy…

But I noticed if I buy her something, she just coldly thanks me and that’s all. I am an Architect, working in a firm and also into private jobs.. I recently completed a project and was paid in millions..

I thought I should surprise my wife so I bought her a new car(an SUV)…. She acted so plain.. Just said thank you and that was all.. Instead of displaying it all over social media platforms, write lovey dovey epistles about me and celebrate me like other women do.

By all standards, I am handsome, tall, dark, educated, nice guy, well to do, so why is she not proud to show me off?
Why does she not want me to show her off?

In all fairness, she has been a very nice partner so far but why this cold abnormal attitude ?This is not how women ought to beh
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So I'm in a long distance relationship. And we're almost a year together. Recently, my girl has been mentioning an uncle who's her dad's friend. Few weeks ago he requested she comes to work for him for the period of time his assistant will be away. That was two weeks. I was okay with it since she assured me he's a close family friend that is married with kids. After she had worked for him, he gave her a phone and 20k. She didn't tell me these until later when she was about to come see me. Some time later she told me he asked her to go have dinner with him. That was the beginning of my discomfort. Though she told me she didn't go. When she's with me, he keeps calling her but she doesn't pick up. I go to work the whole day and leave her at home so I don't know if she picks later. When I talk about my discomfort she still says he's just a close uncle. Now yesterday she was going to travel but before she did, she called me to let me know and also inform me that the same uncle bought her a bed and cooking gas because she just got admission into the university. She told her dad that I bought them for her and he collected my number. So she was telling me that so I would cover up for her. Her reason was that her dad would think that there's something going on between her and his friend. I have the dad's number so I blocked him so he wouldn't reach me. I then told her I will not accept that because that is disrespectful and she should tell me what exactly is between them. She thinks since I'm her boyfriend I should understand her. But I don't think I trust her with all these. She later told me she returned what he got her but she's disappointed at my reaction. I'm still dumbfounded.
Please, how should I go about this.
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Good day follow pals,i married to my wife 4 yrs ago from akwaibom to Enugu state,my wife suddenly changed .she quarrel with almost every girl that greets me well,both my relatives etc.
Some days ago she traced me to compound of one of a family friend and said that I came there to have sex with their daughter , started shouting on me, following me , reaching house I just keep mute on her, she decided to go back to their house to fight them.later came back and started quarrelling with me calling my family all sought of name. That all my married sisters are harlots etc,i told her to leave this bad family back to her home which I never mean .the next day she hide all my phone's. Car key,etc.
Last. Night she broke bottle and threatened to injure me, I later found out that my car front tire was cutted I said that she did it .i have stopped eating her food for sometime now.
She reported the case to our local community police and arrested the small girl and the mother which I later went there to clear them.
Now she is planning to go all the way to the girls school and disgrace her,both on the way and in school.
I don't know what to do,she has disgrace me a lot, should I just divorce her,we have 3 female kids already.
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Good day follow pals,i married to my wife 4 yrs ago from akwaibom to Enugu state,my wife suddenly changed .she quarrel with almost every girl that greets me well,both my relatives etc.
Some days ago she traced me to compound of one of a family friend and said that I came there to have sex with their daughter , started shouting on me, following me , reaching house I just keep mute on her, she decided to go back to their house to fight them.later came back and started quarrelling with me calling my family all sought of name. That all my married sisters are harlots etc,i told her to leave this bad family back to her home which I never mean .the next day she hide all my phone's. Car key,etc.
Last. Night she broke bottle and threatened to injure me, I later found out that my car front tire was cutted I said that she did it .i have stopped eating her food for sometime now.
She reported the case to our local community police and arrested the small girl and the mother which I later went there to clear them.
Now she is planning to go all the way to the girls school and disgrace her,both on the way and in school.
I don't know what to do,she has disgrace me a lot, should I just divorce her,we have 3 female kids already.
Thanks
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