Login With Facebook Or Please Join Naijapals! or Login .I met a guy sometime last year and as at that time I was dealing with a breakup and I was heartbroken but he came into my life and made me very comfortable..knowing that am an orphan with no one to help, he kept helping in every way he could telling me he would never leave me to the extent of introducing me to his Frends and family members we dated from then til this year and now last week he called me knowing I was really sick to say he wanted a break up..and he has a girl he already promised marriage and she wouldn’t let him go and there is nothing he has not done but she wouldn’t let go that he is still going to pay my house rent as he promised but I should just forgive him and move on as he has met another girl and he doesn’t want to hurt me cause his mum introduced her to him a very long time and she wouldn’t let hi Leave her and she wants him to marry her...now he’s saying he’s sorry and he wants me to move on that he will stil pay my rent and I should move on...right now I feel so hurt and betrayed and am also angry at him cause he knows wat I went through b4 and he also did the same to me...am sad and confused but right now I don’t want anything from him anymore but I don’t know were to get my rent from but I don’t want anything to do with him now am confused and I don’t know wat to do now...pls I need help on what to do pls if this is posted I would be reading comments..thnk you View comments (8) | Add comment I'm a married woman in Abuja and I have this friend who is also married, we are both in our late twenties and have a child each. We both got married in 2017. My friend always visits me since I'm currently not working and she works in Government so she has spare time on her hands. I noticed that unlike before when she visits and stays for a long time, she would just come, make sure her husband speaks with me and leave saying she has to go to work. Unfortunately for her on her last visit, her husband called me by 9pm to ask if she has left my house cos her number wasn't going and she wasn't home. She left my house by 12pm and so I had to lie and cover up for her, I felt very bad cos I also had to lie to my husband who happens to be friends with her husband. I called her later on and asked her, then she told me she went to see a friend, when she saw that I wasn't having any of it, she later opened up and told me she is dating a House of Assembly member, and also her husband's business isn't doing so well, and she is the one paying the bills. I'm shocked and unhappy she has brought me into this, cos now I'm the person she uses to lie, she is my closest friend, we are both new in Abuja and I'm the only one her hubby knows and likes, hence lying with my name. Please what do I do about this? Tell my husband I lied? Isn't it bad enough she is a close friend and doing this? I hope she reads this cos I am very uncomfortable with this. View comments (5) | Add comment i met a guy online last year Nov, we got talking, started online dating January, nd it was serious than i thought. Everything was fine, he promised to relocate to Nigeria by April from Spain. He didn't and since then, we have been having different issues everyday, he pick offence in anything i say or do, he said he has alot bothering him, i shouldnt be offended, that he would disclose them to me when we see, any small agruement, he would yell at me so loud, and even block me, he would be wrong and i would be the one to apologise, today we are fine, the other day, he would block me, even after wronging me. I got tired of everything and started datting one of my suitors here in Nigeria, he was serious, ready and good, i told him about my relationship, he laughed it that it isnt a relationship, someone i haven't even seen, i like him at first, but later feel in love with him, he told me his plan to get married this year, so we can travel together, nevertheless, i made my spain boyfriend my priority, he got jealous and told me to choose between the both of them, i told him to give me time, he said he prayed abt it and we are good to go, while thinking on what to do, my spain bf made life tiring for me, we gisted abt cashew nut, and i told him i prefer groundnut to it, he said "that is how Nigeria girls form", maybe i have even hawk cashew nut before, i felt offended and told him we would talk later, he just blocked me instantly after d call, i didnt even begged him and have made up my mind to be with my new bf... Last week friday, i went to vigil, after the program on Saturday, i was so tired nd it was raining heavily since it was close to my bf place, i decided to rest b4 going home, i called, he ended my call and his phone was switched off, the security allowed me inside the estate,the door was opened, i enter his room and he was there naked with another woman... he came to meet me in the parlour, i didn't even say anything, i left and it was still raining, he didnt even follow me, am sure we went back to contine his sexual activites, you all know how heavy last week saturday downpour was, he called and apologise, but tuesday, i forgave him, View comments (3) | Add comment i need advice mostly from the men. My girlfriend is so annoying now and am getting tired. Reason is i cheated on her with 2other ladies, she came across the pictures on my phone, i begged and apologized i even had to call her mum to help me beg too i was ashamed. She blocked me and posted the pictures so that people that knew us would no we aint together anymore and i was dating someone else. I dont want to loose her, she has been with me while i was down, i made a mistake, although this is the second time i am doing this i promised not to do it again and try to be better. After her mum helped me beg her she unblocked me and said she would try to forgive but would be hard to forget. The issue now is she does not trust me, she told me herself too that her trust for me is now 0% i have begged i dont know what she wants me to do again and she keeps bringing the issue. If i dont reply her for 5mins or leave her hanging she starts saying am still dating the other girls and am with them, which is not true. Although i still communicate with both the girls they still come to my house mostly to charge because we stay in the same area, but i made it clear to them that i made a mistake, so we are just friends now, i told my girlfriend this when she asked and she sounded somehow? Does she mean i cannot keep them as friends again? Is that right? How do i prove to her that she can still trust me again? Because every little space she sparks up again, its been 2weeks this happened. View comments (4) | Add comment I'm 28 yrs old, my parents died when I was 14yrs old. I dropped out of school because no one could afford to pay my fees. I met a guy when I was 17yrs old and he sent me back to school. He sold fruits on the streets so that he could pay my school fees. He later got a job as a truck driver and sent me to university. I'm now working as a lawyer. My problem is that I feel I can't continue with this relationship because this guy is not the type of man I would like to marry! !!!! How best can I tell him that he is not my type without hurting his feelings? I'm grateful he sent me to school but I can't be in a relationship with him anymore! I want somebody in my own class, not a truck driver! !! I am Stressed and need your advise View comments (9) | Add comment Write a confession |
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