Login With Facebook Or Please Join Naijapals! or Login This early Sunday morning a side chick came to my home to fight me, I was wondering what gave her so much guts. I just heard a bang on the gate, I woke my man up and he asked me to go check so I wore my coat and went to the gate asking who are you, the person was quite so I just opened and she started fighting me, I beat her up before my man rushed out and was asking her to leave before he adds to the beating . This girl said she is not leaving that she loves him so much and he was the one that asked her to come and fight me, if not how did she get the address. My man was now saying he did not mean it it was just a joke. This girl insisted that she won’t leave the house , sat at the gate with 3 boxes . My man was begging me but I don’t get , I am not really married to him but we are making plans, he said he wants to be with me but he is not yet ready to marry which I understand and will wait but he has engaged me and I am willing to wait forever for him. I don’t know how to handle this girl at the gate, she is irritating me as I see her from my window. Should I just armrest her and accuse her of stealing or anything. My man is just acting confused but he has asked me to take any action with his permission. I need quick advice this girl is by our gate and swore not to live until she enters the house and man is a calm man . Please how do a wife handle a side chick who is stubborn. View comments (6) | Add comment I pray I don’t take my own life before morning. I caught my husband sleeping with our neighbors daughter in his car this night, I am 5 months pregnant. It was the most disgusting sight ever in my life . I noticed he was not in the room and his phone was charging , so I called him but no answer, I don’t know what took my outside to his car then I decided to pick up my favorite cd I was playing in his car, but first I went for the car keys and did not see it so I rushed out to the car to be sure I did not leave it open and I saw the car shaking , I was scared at first be I felt someone was about to steal and move the car so I rushed and grabbed the car door handle , they were foolish enough not to lock so I saw them . All I did was pick few clothes and left to my friends house as my husband chased my naked . I feel like dying because I can’t endure this pain , I can’t sleep I had to block him so he won’t kill my battery. How do I cope with this now, is it too late to abort this child and pick up my life ? This girl he was sleeping with is just 15 or 16 years old . Will I survive this night . View comments (6) | Add comment I have this girl I am dating, I met her here but not on the dating site on the comment box the day they posted something about say hi if you are single so I saw her comment and sent her a DM . She is so beautiful and down to earth, we started dating , she is so good with house chores, this my girl can wash clothes like dry cleaners, her ironing game is too much that you will think I dry cleaned all my clothes, I love how she takes care of my house like a home , she dresses beg like a hotel bed she is too good I must confess that I never believed I could ever meet sure girl online . So the main problem She is not good in bed,please don’t insult me, she does not even know how to position her body or waist I keep teaching her but she gets worse every day, or she is always tired every time tired because I asked her to come live with me so we can bond more . So I started watching porn with her, putting her in the mood and she became better but another problem I noticed is that her private part is too big for me, she swallows all of my when she is on top and I don’t feel anything, I don’t want to go further but she is not good in bed but I love her hand work and how she takes care of my house . I don’t know how to tell her that I don’t love her in bed so she does not feel bad . She is a very nice girl don’t want to hurt her she is too good . But I want to enjoy sex, maybe because of too much work but a woman should be use to house chores . Please don’t insult me just advise me . Please I am very sensitive to words don’t insult me . View comments (5) | Add comment So I’m going to keep this short. My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost four years mostly long distance but today he’s breaking us up. The reason is that I went to a party 2 nights ago and I grinded a couple of guys and didn’t tell him. The next day I tried talking to him and telling him about it but he gave me attitude throughout the day. In the night which was last night I called him to talk to him since we hadn’t talked throughout that day. And I even said oh I wanted to gist you about yesterday sef but his dad called him so he ended our call. This afternoon we were talking then he’s like is there anything I want to tell him and I told him something but didn’t tell him the grinding stuff cause I didn’t feel it was right to tell him then. Sha after a while, I eventually told him. So he said that this is the end of our relationship. Because his friends already told him and this isn’t the first time his friends would tell him things about me and he’d keep quiet about it and when I eventually tell him he’ll be like he already knows. Pls how do I get him back? I’ve put my all in this relationship and I was looking forward to spending more time with him during this holiday after this semester. I LOVE YOU IBRAHIM! View comments (2) | Add comment I met this man and we got married 2013.. it was from fire to fire. Meanwhile he was living with 3 of his siblings before he married me. I came in and loved all of them and tolerated all their excesses. I took them as my own younger siblings, but they just hated me for nothing , the more I tried to impress them, the more they found reason for their actions, they hated me cos their mum hated me, It was only their first son and my Ex’s immediate younger brother that was there for me but they couldn’t help because the parents felt they don’t benefit from those ones cos they aren’t financially stable. His younger siblings living with us made life hell for me there.. most of time the parents wuld plot their daughter who was one of the people in the house to fight me.. They could call every minutes to ask them if I had given them food..and if I used to bring food for them to the shop. They couldn’t place any reasonable reason for their wickedness on me. All I could hear the mum say was that I came to reap where I didn’t sow ( Not dat my ex is a rich man o, he was just there I could say), And dat I came to scatter their family.. Meanwhile the family had been on fight among themselves even before they married me (I wasn’t aware till I came in ) . The parent never allowed me have a taste of good marriage cos they were in control of my ex’s actions against me. Any small thing fiiaam he wuld call either his mum or dad to complain to them. A prophetess who prophesied to him to go ahead and marry me that I’m a gud girl and all that , later turned against me and started giving them fake prophecies that they should send me away that I came to destroy and scatter their home.. she prophesied that I’m ogbanje (this was same woman dat told him to go ahead with me initially)All the bad prophecies against me from the so called prophetess made my ex to also found no joy in me.. He wuld come from the woman’s ministry and began to sprinkle olive oil and water everywhere even under the bed. This whole thing continued.. The prophetess turned against me because I stopped following my ex to her ministry , my reason was dat I noticed she was aggravating to my issues cos each time I complain my reason was dat I noticed she was aggravating to my issues cos each time I complain to her about my plight with my ex,, she wuld sound nice to me saying Men will never appreciate a good woman till they loose her...Same time she wuld go to my ex and say worse about me to him. I was always in tears there.. He frustrated the hell out of me. A day came , I got a call from home that my dad collapsed, and gave up while he was been rushed to the hospital .. Then I was pregnant , even the pregnancy didn’t touch their heart to be a bit compassionate on me, neither did my dad’s demise melted their hearts.. I saw hell in their hands. One fateful day like dat.. they ganged up against me in the house, dat made their sis to look for a way to fight me and I was pregnant... this girl had run away from the house o. I called her on the fone a lot of times crying n begging her to come back , but she refused. I cried to dis girl on fone, she wuld pick and wouldn’t say a word. I was 8months preggy then.. that was wen my ex started scolding me, thereby hitting me that I’ve sent his only sis away, that my plan has worked, i pleaded with him and he was busy threatening dat if anything shuld happen to the girl, that he wuld kill me. I had to go out to look for this girl , on my way I fainted n started bleeding. Ppl around rushed me to hospital where they revived me with oxygen. When I put to bed. His mother came n started with her own physical maltreatment.. My mum couldn’t come for omugwo cos she was mourning her hubby then. I pleaded my ex for my oldest sis (Adannem)to come but the mother refused that she’d be the one to come. She came and gave me the real definition of hatred . I never had rest . I’d cry every night. Even at that I tried my best to show her love. Bought things for her.. View comments (1) | Add comment Write a confession |
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