Login With Facebook Or Please Join Naijapals! or Login Please I need your advice please.am a single me and get myself into a distance relationship which we both have not met. I told him everything about myself including my status,him told me he is a divorcee wit a child too.we talked joke on phone and chat most of time.we kept talking let that am he promised of coming by October.just last week after our normal chat and jokes,i called him late at night to discuss a issue with him on WhatsApp,to my surprise him declined the call and blocked me.have tried calling his line but always on mail. I don't no what to do anymore. View comments (5) | Add comment please I would love to share something depressing me right now, I and my fiancee have been dating for over a year plus now, just last year December I went to see her people and started the traditional rights for marriage, we are both currently on marriage counselling. Now the issue at hand, 3 weeks ago we had a fight and my fiancee almost called it off, if not for pleas from me, the issue was because I had not heard from her until I called her around 12pm on that day, things got out of hand I said a few things which I later apologised for but she wasn't having it she insisted on breaking up. We made up and carried on, just yesterday we went for a wedding, we had a really nice time and all, on our way out from the reception hall, she was walking along side me all of sudden I realised she wasn't with me anymore, I looked back only to find her talking with another guy, I wasn't happy, I told her at least she would have recognised her presence even if she dint want to introduce me she would told Mr before just leaving me like that....we settled when we got home, a call came In from a female friend who has been making advances at me, she was complaining that I don't give her attention...I showed my girl the message she took the phone from me and decided to start scrolling tru my messages and wanted to read a chat with one of my male friends of which I objected to because he one time told me sensitive things about his family which he pleaded with me yo be confidential, now my girl accuses me that I'm hiding something from her, her altitude has changed, she's acting like she doesn't care about the relationship anymore. This is someone ive stood by and supported her even now she is yet to find a job, she says I go tru her phone and don't want her to go tru mine....secondly please I want to know, is it normal fora girl to chat a guy up and start reminding him of the agape love she had for him, even telling him that they should post him to the US so she can use him to come to america without possibly having anything in mind....this is what I found in her phone the last time I went through it. View comments (6) | Add comment Please am dying emotionally.So I have this boyfriend we have been dating almost two years now. Somethings happened last year and he said he want break up but I try to talk to him and fix the things he pointed out as the reason for breakup.So we continue but all am seeing is as if am forcing myself so I asked for a breakup too then he later came to apologize with his friend saying he has realized his mistakes.I accepted him and few weeks later I discovered I am pregnant he vexed up many things happened I mange and struggle tho he sends money and we still talk like bf and gf when quarrel went down.I am close to delivery less than a month now,but I am not feeling the vibe in him all am seeing is pretense,so I asked him today the truth about the matter and he said the time he came with his friend to apologize that he only PITIED me(I haven’t discovered I was pregnant)I felt so sad,our family already met,now I feel like leaving the relationship (cus reasoning the word PITY shows no love) before the child because after the child we might end up together and he will still say he is with me because of the child.Am just confused (he still send me money,come to sleep over,buys gift for me) View comments (2) | Add comment This is a first for me, so bear with me. I am currently involved in a long distance relationship. I am looking forward to finally meeting him he is it appears to be everything I want and need. The problems are...I am a mom and grandma and he is never married, no children. I am also 11 years his senior. I'd like him to be happy. I don't want him to resent me later since I'll never bear another child. I'll give him up, to ensure his happiness, but I want to try to see where we go, first. Am I being selfish? Should I just walk away? Or tell him how I feel and try to keep our friendship while he pursues someone his age? He says he loves me and shows it in many ways. Please, if you have a negative comment, do not bother. I would prefer an honest opinion, even if I didn't like it. I don't need anyone else bashing me more than I already do myself View comments (4) | Add comment Okay so I have this amazing boyfriend living abroad that has been nothing short of a dream. He takes care of me, sends me money regularly and he's just been there, my pillar and my rock while I, on the other hand is still in school. My question is this, how do you be the 'perfect' lady for this kind of man? These days I feel sad cos I bring nothing to the table. Don't get me wrong, I am intelligent, I talk to him everyday even with the crazy time difference, I make him laugh and I listen to him but I feel like that's not enough. What more can I bring to the table to show I appreciate him. I can't send him money, I don't even have enough myself as I am not working yet, I can't give him mind blowing sex, he's far away. Please what can I give to make it balanced? Should I send him prayers everyday? Should I send appreciative messages once in a week? What should I do abeg, this man deserves it and more. View comments (4) | Add comment Write a confession |
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