Login With Facebook Or Please Join Naijapals! or Login My girlfriend is very very silly, I rented that apartment for her before I lost my job, I bought everything in that house, I was leaving in my company apartment so when I was sacked they took everything including my car cause I had no personal car of my own then I had to put up with my girlfriend for the time and her attitude has been so shitty, can you believe this girl asked me to wash plate and clean the house when she is off to work ,and if I don’t she will nag and give me the insults of my life , I will just ignore . Sometimes I have to go put up with my friends or pay for a cheap hotel just to have my peace and I don’t my friends to know my predicament until I sort myself out. So yesterday she was on one long call and as soon as she was done she just entered the kitchen and came out asking me to go wash the plate, I ignored her and she repeated it, I ignored her and the next thing was that she went into the kitchen and got one of the plate with water and there it at me , I went mad and beat her almost to death , ended up rushing her to the hospital and she is still here now . Naijapals I have paid her hospital bills but I am planing on kicking her out of this house since I paid the rent and the landlord knows me well, I paid in her name tho but they take instructions from me, even the gate man knows I am her man and I charge . I am done with the relationship now I know she was in it just for the benefit, it not even up to 6 months I lost my job and she is acting stupid . What do u all suggest ? I know o will be fine . View comments (8) | Add comment hello guys I need some assistance/suggestion . so I met a girl some 2years ago, hardly knew her but got her pregnant. Since I really don’t know her much but knows she isn’t financially buoyant so was scared of accepting her and presenting her to the rest of the family. Then I made a promise to her that I will back her up especially in her academics both university and completion of her professional degree (she wasn’t in the university then but doing some professional course). So I did, I assisted her in also getting some funds due to her and her family through a process. I asked her to lend me 300k, but told her I will pay it back in bits through paying her fees. of which I have given over 1million naira in assistance; but right now I have told her that we will b getting married this year in 7months time, as soon as she clears her professional certificate courses and be in year 3 in the university. well my greatest fear finally got hold of me when somehow she got some money to open a shop, and then she began to arrogantly speak to me and sounding ungrateful she even said that one month I gave her “only 8k”, infact she became a total new person, for this reason I told that I was broke and won’t be able to pay that semester that she should look for peeps to borrow from then I will pay (just so she can know that money is hard and people hardly give and should be grateful for the ones given) well that was when she told me that she has opened a shop and that her shop can pay her fees, then I realized that, that was why she became arrogant. but we spoke over it and got over it so I believed This girl now told me how this biz was having good sales, so I gave a little chunk of money (with the understanding that 30% of the profit will be for her) with the intent to observe her and then add up to pay for the completion of her professional course. This girl neither refunded the money nor spoke about the profit, she said she has paid for some of the professional courses and never acknowledged the fact that the payment was both from the capitals and returns from the money given to her rather she was saying she used up the 200k plus for the kid. Well I told her to refund the money and if she doesn’t I won’t assist her any further , this brought some commotion as she refused, later she said I also ate her 300k. well ignored her and we got talking normal, just 2days ago I called to ask her about her school, she said no money, I was like how, next she brought up the 300k issue, she then said infact the relationship is over. I was like really, she said yes that she has gotten a job now as a manager somewhere and doesn’t need me anymore as I am like a disturbance to her. Guys I am really confused if I should plead with her or not because I know I have hurt her in the past, but what I have realized now is that when she feels or senses some kind of financial danger she will try to get talking with me but as soon as she feels secured she begins to show her arrogance. And finally she portends to behave like a gold digger as she keeps drumming in my ear that her friends fees were actually catered for by their boyfriends/ fiancés of which I am not a party to due to experience from friends. Please help a brother out. View comments (2) | Add comment I didn't ask to be created, and I think it's quite unfair to bring people into the world without their consent. I have no desire to continue living. Nothing interests me... This world is shit! View comments (3) | Add comment Why do most men take good, hardworking ladies for granted? ...Here’s my story, I’d be 26 in a few days. there’s this guy I’ve been seeing for a while, he’s in the states and I’m back here in Nig, we have been together before he traveled, we’ve always been on and off, he’d just disappear and reappear anytime he see me doing pretty well for myself. I run an online store, I’m more introverted and I have just few friends. So recently things weren’t going quite well and my phone crashed, I had to use money from my business to get a new one and it really affected it My BF on the other hand sometimes ask me about it but he’s not willing to help in anyway .. he has a good job, he has the money because he tells me about most of his transactions. My sis once had accommodation ish in school and I needed just 20k to balance up, I told him about it he said he didn’t have and the following day transferred 100k plus to his mom for shopping ...I am not a liability, I’m not demanding and I’m even willing to do something for myself, all I want is just a little support. I come from a struggling family.. back to now I told him about my birthday, told him I needed to get a few stuff, I actually had it in mind to add it to the money for my business ..oga told me he had just 3500 to spare lmao like wth!! And since then he’s not really been talking to me and he’s recently talking to me about marriage, I’m pretty sure if I’m able to struggle my way through and try to put the pieces together which is usually difficult Because no one is willing to help now he’d come back again and start preaching about how he sees his future with me .. I’m someone who don’t believe in someone changing a particular thing about them after marriage ..but can I really settle with someone like this if he’s indeed serious about Marriage? View comments (6) | Add comment I no longer feel the need to be alive. I don't plan on ending my life, but I just don't see the point of being here on earth. So much pain and mystery. Yet, to what end? Life's a curse! View comments (4) | Add comment Write a confession |
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