Login With Facebook Or Please Join Naijapals! or Login I just have a few questions that are bothering me. I met this guy through his mother. Actually the mom is my mom's friend. She collected my number from me and gave to her son. We have been communicating for going to two years now. He wants to marry me. He will be 31 yr old and I will be 21 this year . He is nice matured and very comfortable and he really pets me. I have been avoiding him since we started communication, not wanting to meet him, because I told him am not ready to marry cos am young and still in school and my course (law) is very hectic for marraige and motherhood. He told me I wouldn't have to worry that he will make me comfortable anywhere and in any situation. He has been very persistent. Never shown his anger when I don't respond or disappoint our appointment. I finally met him this Christmas and I like him very much, because of the way we have known since. He is proud to show me to all his family and big bosses and rich friends too. They all are even looking forward to the meet me. My mum likes him too. But he stopped at sec school then entered business before he made it. Though he said he is still going to go to uni. My worry is am I too young to marry?..is he too old for me? And not going to the University is it a problem? I don't want to make a mistake because am too young and it would pain me cos I was young but I don't also want to loose a good man because I think am too young..(.i don't know if anyone can relate to this feeling ). Please I need advice especially from married people immediately because I think he wants to propose to me. View comments (7) | Add comment is it my duty as a wife to dress the bed ? Because my husband is beginning to get on my nerves, he is getting me so mad and if I react it can be bloody . Every time he wakes up he leave me to dress the bed and he will just go to work , I am tired of doing it because I work too not like I am not busy or jobless this is becoming a crazy habit .so today I intentionally refused to dress the bed and we just got back from work, the next thing he did was call me lazy and started throwing out the sheets from the bed, I just ignored him and went to the guest room and this is were I will be till Moro . Since nobody can dress the bed let us sleep in another room , he is crazy . View comments (9) | Add comment good evening, I really need your help urgently in making a decision. I recently left a relationship and I have decided to give myself some time before I get into a new one. Not long after, I met this guy who came off to be a very gentleman who lived for and loved God. He spoke to me about relationships and dating and that he really needed to be in a relationship with me and I told him truthfully that I wasn't ready to start this whole thing again. We became friends I started visiting him at his workplace. But there is gentleman there that is always passing comments that seem as if he's trying to send a message across to me anytime I go there. One day on one of such visits the gentleman said something that made me visit my friend's IG page and I found something revealing. He apparently posted pics of his gf (meanwhile he said he wasn't dating) and kept promoting her business on his page. He asked me out for lunch one afternoon and whilst we were eating he told me that he's decided to get back into a relationship with his ex. I congratulated him and asked her name just to confirm if she was the person I suspected on his page. Lo and behold it was her. He later told me that they were going. Just today, he called to say that since I'm not working, there an opportunity in his office (he is the CEO), and that I should come for an interview tomorrow which I gladly accepted at first. But upon chatting with him concerning it, I realised his gf is the person going to interview me. I really need your suggestions as to whether I should go for the interview or not. P. S. The guy and I are only friends and at the point he told me he was in a relationship, I kept my distance because I didn't want to come between them View comments (6) | Add comment Please I need your advise on this,I have a girlfriend we’ve been together for about a year now,And we recently moved down to Nigeria,After which i engages her,Then a month later she fell ill and in her sickness she was chatting a friend telling the friend she wouldn’t have listened to her advise,and when I saw this chat I suspected something was wrong I took the phone when she was not around and I continued chatting that her female friend that’s when I found out she was advised by that friend to quit my relationship with her and be with her cousin brother since we were actually having issues that period and this took place in a wedding ceremony where the cousin brother took my girlfriend to one of the rooms in the hotel and persuaded her to sleep with him and that he’s ready for marriage That he will take away her pains,and they made love that night Now she’s ill because of her betrayal,she’s begging now that she didn’t see it coming that she was actually taken advantage of,even her family members are in the queue of begging me to take her back Please Naijapals what must I do now I’m confused.???????????? ???? View comments (5) | Add comment My wife and my neighbor had a heated argument that led to a very big fight this early morning, when I saw the fight coming, I asked my wife to go inside and she refused, the next was a slap from my neighbor and her daughter, I tried to separate but they beat my wife silly and I could not do anything because I am sleeping with my neighbor daughter and I was handicapped. Naijapals I felt so bad, I could not touch her Mum or her to avoid drama I just watched them beat up my wife until I was able to take her out before they kill her . It was so bad I rushed her to the hospital, my wife is insisting we go to the police and report so that they don’t come back again , I refused and she insisted and called me a weak man, she called me Diffetent names but non I know if I go to the police station with her, I will just cast and this girl I am sleeping with is just 16 years but 16 years wey tear eyes o, because she was the one who came at me so don’t even accuse me of rape or anything. Please how do I handle this without getting trapped . I love my wife and I am a disgrace to this that she is pregnant. But she is just 4weeks gone and the doc said the baby is safe . NP how do I fight for my wife . View comments (11) | Add comment Write a confession |
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