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Im a 27 years old lady in a 3 years relationship with a 30 years old guy. We have an almost two years old daughter. When we met, we were so inlove and i fell pregnant two months in the relationship. Before i find out i was pregnant, i caught him proposing my bestfriend and he even tell her to cheat behind my back. He even went at her room with condoms in his pocket and when i went there ( coz we sent him up) he said he was on his way to me despite him saying good night to me already. I forgave him because i cant do anything i was pregnant and thinking he will change. Five months later i gt admitted for varsity and resigned and moved to the city. He been supporting the baby but he cheats alot, lie to me and just doesnt discuss his plans with me. I stopped complaining. Everytime i want to break up with him he beg me and i forgave him...the only thing he does good in the relationship is only supporting our daughter by sending money and text me just to say hi and discuss nothing deep as couple.

Im tired and want to break up with him this time for good because i feel like he is really wasting my time, i cant remember the last time he tell me that he loves me, he doesnt communicate anything of his with me as his girlfriend, he cheats, he lies, he only visit me even after three months just for sex, lately i realised he blocked me from seeing his Whatspp status (of which i didnt ask him about yet coz im surprised he did block me and yet we text as if nothing is happening) and he is also busy proposing my close cousin. I have complained many times, he promises to change but never did. He is only behaving for few days and then back to his old behaviours. Im tired of begging him to behave. I want to break up with him. Guys pls advice me what to do or how to tell him either inperson or phone...im tired, he is draining me emotionally.

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I wanna marry buy, I don't want children. And that is making it almost impossible to get a Nigerian girl to be in a serious relationship with. They all want kids. Is it possible to get a girl or woman who wouldn't want kids in Nigeria?
I might have to start considering staying alone if i don't find one, cuz I really do not want a child.
Is there any dating sites for barren women or women who don't want children? Not a prostitute that have aborted are ass off.

Thanks
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Some humans can be so ungrateful. It's Christmas time and this guy that i have know for many years who have never for one day gifted me any thing. His birthday is coming up after Christmas and since I will be traveling to see my mother and will not have time to celebrate with him on that day, I decided to take my hard earned money to the store and buy him mens stuff worth #50.000. My intention was to make him happy out of my kind hearted mind and being that December is his birthday. To my greatest surprise, this guy ask me to return the items I bought for him and get my money back. Jesus!!! Am so disappointed right now. Could it be that in his mind he will feel obligated some how? I just don't know what to make out of this. As a lady I feel disrespected, because i find it rude with his actions to the point that I do not want to see him anymore. He has been calling all day I refuse to pick his calls probably he is feeling stupidly guilty for treating me in that manner. Right now, I have decided to donate these gift to the homeless at least they will appreciate it.
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My birthday was three days ago and I spent it all alone. I didn't get a birthday wish from anyone. Not even my family.
I initially kicked it off that I didn't care, but to be plain honest, I kinda do. Especially due to the fact that I go out of my way to celebrate these people and even get them gifts on their special day.
It really doesn't feel good to be nice to others and they don't reciprocate the same care you show them. I feel alone and unloved.
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