Login With Facebook Or Please Join Naijapals! or Login NO MAN NO GAIN, NO WOMAN NO PAIN... View comments (0) | Add comment Am a dude who's an introvert, one who's so scared to ask a lady out. It really bothers me because presently, I've got plans of settling down soon and am scared of ending up with someone who's isn't really what I wanted. I have a clear view of the kind of class of lady I really do want but whenever I see anyone that's in that category i get frozen up until am gone past the moment. My confidence is really low. I sometimes do get the green light from these ladies especially those around my neighborhood but how do I even begin? This really bothers me as I seem to be uncomfortable with those I relate with at the moment. I really need a change cos I really want to start a family soon. View comments (4) | Add comment So basically, I have been talking to a guy I met on Instagram since June of this year. I live in Milan, and he was supposed to come see me in August but due to his busy schedule with work, he couldn’t make it. So since I’m coming to Nigeria for Christmas, we decided to meet up in Nigeria. I’m not coming for him, i had already planned on coming for my friends wedding. So anyways, this guy seems to really like me. He’s 42 while I just turned 23. I kind of feel weird because of the age difference, I’ve never been with anyone that much older than me. He seems to want marriage and stuff which I’m not ready for. He’s a divorcee and has a child. He’s never given me money before nor have I ever asked him for money. I genuinely like him but my problem now is that, I have a boyfriend who stays in Abuja, we’ve been together for two years but we recently took a break because he’s been cheating on me nonstop. He’s 27. But recently, we started talking again and he wants us to get back together and I feel bad now because I’m getting to know the 42 years old man and we’re planning on spending time together. I feel bad because I don’t want it to look like I’m double dating. I obviously love my boyfriend but he’s cheated on me several times so I don’t know if I should just do the same thing back to him and get to know this guy, it’s not like I’m trying to marry him. But I also don’t want to get to know this new guy and mess things up with my boyfriend. I know it’s very confusing, please help. View comments (5) | Add comment I think am very stupid and selfish person. Am a serving corper, married and my husband just found out today that they are paying me 30K in my PPA. I lied to him that they are not paying me and he believed it and placed me on monthly payment. He has been an awesome hubby ever since we got married last year. We have been best of friends and we promised not to lie or hide anything. I don't even know what led me not to tell him the truth. I guess I was listening to a friend's advice. Naijapals he saw all the alerts and was so furious and since morning he not returned nor answer my calls. I tried to explain to him but he left and the only thing he said was that I don't value the friendship we shared in this marriage. Naijapals am so confused right now. I just hope that not talking to me is the punishment for not telling him the truth, I don't want it to result to something else. My husband don't keep late night but I haven't seen him since he left house this morning. Pls what do I do. I just need him back here i promise not to lie ever again View comments (12) | Add comment Good Afternoon to all great IQ in relationship and romances in the house. Am in LOVE with a lady and she also loves me too. But i had a challenge with her. She used to tell me that am not ROMANTIC WITH WORDS and she would smile politely. This gives me alot of concern. Pls what are the best romantic words and how can i go about it? Pls i need your Advice. Thanks a lot. View comments (9) | Add comment Write a confession |
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