Login With Facebook Or Please Join Naijapals! or Login am 27 years , from Akwa Ibom state base in Lagos. am single and a business lady, i had a boyfriend which i was madly in love whit him and i always thinking we gonna spend our life together but due to some complication we had, we got separated because we had the same blood type,, i was so disappointed , since then i couldn't find my self falling in love again because of the love i had for him back then and i couldn't get him off my mind. i always try to fall in love again but it was no easy for me ,, have bing single for a year now ,, but finally i saw this cute, gentle, handsome young man here i really like everything about him , and we have been chatting for a while now, he has everything i want in a man, but am afraid to open up to him because he might not have that same feelings towards me, i think his a nice guy but he just see me as a good friend. we never met in person before, so am afraid because i don't know if he's in any serious relationship or married, he told me he's single, i don't want to fall in love whit someone's husband or someone who is already in love. but i really do have feelings for him Please my good friends i need your advice, what should i do? View comments (7) | Add comment I feel like killing my wife . I know I have cheated on her several times in the past but I became a changed man and now I caught her cheating on me with another man , did I say man or a little boy of 19 years who still sags his jeans to his ass. I watched a sex tape she made for the boy and I was disgusted. I can’t shout because if I do they will remind me that I cheated too. How do I quietly leave this miserable marriage without drama , because the marriage is dead to me, I want her to have her freedom and cheat in peace . She is richer than me and her family is very influential so I am being careful . View comments (7) | Add comment Hi pals. Please I really need your help. I'm intelligent, handsome (by the Grace of God) etc. But the problem is that I stutter/stammer and find it hard to express myself with words. Even when I know what to say I don't say it because of how I talk. Nobody in my family stammer and it started with me. Most time I feel very depressed and think of committing suicide. I prefer charting or text to voice call. This has denied me many positions and things. I feel very bad that people laugh at the way I talk (even stammerers too). Most time before I talk the person will know what I want to say. I'm just tired as the list continues. Please I really need help by any means possible. Any website I can browse through or anything that can help me out of this predicament would be greatly appreciated. Thanks and God bless you View comments (7) | Add comment Okay so i met this guy recently. We get along quite well but the problem is intimacy. I explained to him that i wouldn't like to get intimate with any man until marriage. I told him about how my last experience (which was actually my first) didn't go well. My last relationship was filled with Promises and sweet talks, my defenses was broken and the fact that I was naive made it alot easier to be fooled... at the end of the day i realised those things were just said and done just for the sake of sexual intimacy and nothing more. About this new guy now, he goes on about how much he loves me and says although he might not be expressive enough in showing it but he really loves me. He said he wishes to start a family with me and he's waiting for me to be ready so we'll give birth to cute kids together (he says that both jokingly and seriously).. Recently, i stayed a day over at his place, he tried getting intimate, i resisted.. and then he said with a smile "okay no problem, it's not all about sex tho" we were cool, we cuddled and slept off and then i left the next day.. when i got home, i thanked him over the phone, for having me at his place (that was the first time i spent the night). His reply "it's your house too dear"..(i told him not to tease me and he said he wasn't teasing and that he really meant it, when i said i doubt if he truly likes me that much, he said "okay")... ever since then, he's been acting a bit weird and strange.. he ignored my call twice, replies my message a bit differently. i feel really bad. i love this guy so much, i don't make it obvious tho but i really wish things could work out between us and eventually lead to marriage. i know he's a really nice guy, he has this very good personality that draws me to him and he's not Lazy, but right now I'm so worried and scared. What if i give in and things don't go well? What if he's just being nice for the sex and all.. cos Whenever I'm about to leave after a visit, he doesn't hug or kiss me outside to say goodbye.. he says he's not into PDA (public display of affection).. i can't even differentiate anymore and i really can't stand the hear View comments (3) | Add comment I have a big challenge. During my university days something happened. We went for lectures and I pleaded with my course mate to keep a sit for me which he did not because I did not come on time, some guy went and sat on it . When I got to the lecture hall I asked him to get up and he refused so I slapped him, funny enough he did not reciprocate and he did not still leave the air, so I just went to the back and sat down because of the noise . 2 days later he came to my hostel and sent someone to call me, I felt he wanted to apologize so I dressed up and came out . Guess what this useless guy did, he had poo inside a nylon and he just poured it on my face. I was blind my friends had to take me inside and die to the shame I did not come out for 1 week . Fast forward now, we met last year and we have been dating but no Sex, but I still remember what he did to me and I hate him so very much . I kind of love him some how but the past of what he did keeps coming even tho we have talked and laughed about it . He finally proposed last week and I refused his ring because of the past . The only thing that can make me forgive him is if he allows me do same to him , rub my poo on his face and apologize . I just want him to feel what I feel . Or maybe cook with my poo for him so that he will eat it just like the way he put his own on my face . I want to revenge. View comments (3) | Add comment Write a confession |
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